Welcome to My Site

I'm a Professional Dominatrix in Sydney with over 18yrs experience in BDSM.

I conduct sessions in My private studio close to the Sydney CBD.

I'm also a BDSM Educator, performer and member of the international leather community.


I'm in the fetish editions of Australian Penthouse, speak on Triple J's "The Hook Up", feature on ABC TV on "You Can't Ask That". I'm the Australian Adult Industry Award Winner "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" in 2017.


Please note PHONE is My preferred form of contact, both for expediency and qualitative interaction.


+61 420 879 204

Email: themistress@


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Happy Xmas & NY Holidays!

Hi A/all!

Oh My gosh! I'm writing YET ANOTHER end-of-year blog post after an EVEN BIGGER YEAR than last year. 

Wow. "Is it possible?", you ask? "YES", I confirm! (...and I'd have it no other way!)

I remember looking back over last year and thinking how bumper it was, but THIS YEAR I'm proud to say I've grown more, yet again.

Firstly, My holiday dates...

My Xmas/NY availability:

Sessioning to Dec 23

Dec 24 to Jan 7 - unavailable for appts

Available again from Jan 8

Please know I always observe strict radio silence for this period. This means that I don't check My phone, inbox or social media during this time.

A solid block of time off enables Me to come back refreshed and rejuvenated to torture the hell out of you all as creatively as possible once more in 2018. ;)

On My return on Jan 8, I'll reply to all messages ASAP. 

On to My 2017, in review...

Top of the Task list that I knocked off in 2017:

Me on ABC TV's "Growing Up Gracefully" - touche!

# I was on commercial TV, on "You Can't Ask That.." and "Growing Up Gracefully" on the ABC.

# I was also on commercial Radio on Triple J, on "The Hook Up" - 3 times!

The 2nd Fetish Ed of Australian Penthouse

# I was in Australian Penthouse AGAIN on their second Fetish Issue, then in another regular ed with an in depth interview.

# I took on a trainee, Mistress Reina - and I think she's going to be a winner!

May I present, Trainee Mistress Reina

# I finally made it to Melbourne Sexpo after having to bow out on My first invite when I nearly lost the sight in My right eye 2 years ago! (Yes, it's been 2 years)

# I was asked to speak at an Art After Hours panel at the NSW Art Gallery for the Robert Mapplethorpe exhibition, what a pleasant surprise!

At Mapplethorpe for Art After Hours at the Art Gallery NSW in My own rags

# I did My further-est outcall ever. To Glasgow. Thankyou.

# I went to Ireland, Scotland and Berlin for sessions; three places I'd not gone before.

# I won an Australian Adult Industry Award for "Best for Fantasy and Fetish".

# I celebrated TEN YEARS as an Independant Pro Domme! Yes!!!

...and what a TEN years it's been!

I didn't think I could go as far as I have - but I've already proved to Myself that all I really need to do anything is a leap of faith. I definitely didn't think that I could take this whole ride this far though, 18 years ago...

Every day I look in the mirror and I see My competition - it's a fight with tough odds! That's why I need to get up and hit it EVERY SINGLE day. (Those odds are a blessing!)

Ok. I'm out. See you all next year! (...and yes, I've got something totally new up My sleeve!)

Best, EVER!



At Sexpo in Melbourne 17-19 Nov

Hi A/all,

I'm flying down to Melbourne tonight for Sexpo!

Don't worry, I'm just gone for 3 days - I'll be back in Sydney Tues 21st Nov to resume your usual fetish programming...

I'm doing not one but TWO >>HUGE<< Shibari X Trapeze shows on the Main Stage with My amazing co-performer, Paloma Negra!

Catch us on the stage in the big room at 1730 BOTH nights!

It's not the first time we've presented this show in Melbourne, but we've developed and DEEPENED the performance connection we have so much since Oz Kink Fest back in 2015. 

We're also REALLY excited to be performing on a 7300mm rig at Jeff's Shed. (YES!!! It won't get any bigger in this country! WOOF!!)

We're also having the show professionally shot by the amazing Israeli photographer Asaf Sultan.

He's shooting us for a rope bondage documentary he is compiling, so Paloma and I are naturally PRETTY STOKED to be involved with his project!

I've been asked by My wonderful and perpetually excellent friends at Eagle Leather to present TEN workshops for them in their Fetish Playroom

I said yes the moment they asked as it was 2 years ago when I cancelled the same appointment due to My retinal detachments!!

I'm so glad to be celebrating almost perfect vision 2 years on with My workshops offerings in 2017:

  • How to have Kinky Sex Tonight
  • BDSM 101 - Q&A
  • Heavy Sensory Deprivation and...
  • Shibari Bondage Rope Class!

Sexpo has already started but you can grab your tickets AND additional tickets to the Fetish Playroom online at the above link!

Best, having a ball on stage and in service to the Australian community!



Demos at Sexpo in Melb this wkend!

Hi A/all!

I'm making yet another trip to Melbourne this weekend - this time to present BDSM demos at Eagle Leather's The Fetish Room at Sexpo!

I'll be on site at Australia's biggest and brightest sexuality expo from 8pm on Saturday 6th and from noon to 6pm on Sunday 7th, presenting demos on a diversity of SM topics!


My demo kink presentation list:


8pm - Prostate massage

9pm - Rubber play

10pm - Rope for Sex

11pm - Sounds



12noon - Rope for Sex

2pm - Sounds

3pm - Rubber play

4pm - Cock and Ball Torment

5pm - Rope for Sex

6pm - Rubber play


I'll be demoing each slot for about 30mins. Any workshops that are repeated will have similar content, so if you miss My first latex play demo, do come to the second one!

I'm bringing My amazing inflatable rubber balloon, some of My collection of Cock and Ball Torture gear, My shibari rope for the bondage basics demos and then rigging for advanced play - suspension - as well as My wit and dry sense of humour! ;)

Want to find out more about how to see Me present My wealth of knowledge about kink - as well as all the other fabulous stuff Eagle Leather's Fetish Room has on offer? Check out the Sexpo website below...


I'm not in Melbourne that often normally, but this year I've visited Victoria 3 times in the last month! That's a record - for sessions, Oz Kink Fest, the Fantastic Party and NOW Sexpo!

Unfortunately, I'll not be available for sessions this time as it's quite simply a flying visit!

Be sure to catch Me at Sexpo this weekend if you seek an audience with Me, and to sample My unique presentation workshop style!

Best, all over Australia!



Workshops, Shibari Demos at Sexpo, Aug 1-3

Click on the banner above to check the Sexpo site!

Hi E/everyone,

I've been asked by Sexpo this year to provide BDSM demonstrations and workshops for their bumper weekend event!

This year Sexpo is on August 1 - 3, Friday to Sunday, at Fox Studios.

If you've not been to one of these events before, it's massive. Imagine stall after stall of sex toys and erotic clothing, porn stars signing autographs and strippers doing shows...

It's about as vanilla as you can get - until I walk in! :D :D :D

If you are at Sexpo and want to drop by the BDSM area, I'll be there 6pm - 10pm Fri and Sat, then from noon - 8pm on the Sun.

I'll be bringing My own equipment to facilitate My demonstrations; a suspension bondage drop point to do shibari bondage and a horse for flogging and spanking.

Here is the program of what I'm offering...

Got rope?

Sexpo BDSM Demo and Workshop program:

Friday: Demos 6pm to 10pm
Workshop 8pm: BDSM 101 - Q&A
Saturday: Demos 6pm to 10pm
Workshop 8pm: BDSM 101 - Q&A
Sunday: Demos 12pm to 8pm
Workshop 2pm: BDSM 101 - Q&A
Workshop 4pm: Rope Bondage Basics
Workshop 6pm: Spanking and Flogging Basics

When I lived in Melbourne, I modeled for "Marquis de Sade Corsetry", performing in fetish fashion shows at Sexpo for fun. Now as a presenter, I'll look forward to what I can share with Sexpo on an intellectually "stimulating" level. (And let's just say I'm going to blow away any misconceptions about "50 shades of Gray" being anything to do with genuine BDSM...)

Here I am on the "Attractions" page of the Sexpo site - right next to the "Queens of the Outback" drag act! (At last - FAME!! :D)

Click thru to see Me on the Sexpo site...

I'll most certainly be in the minority as a kinkster, but I'm sure that will just draw a lot of attention. Rest assured dear reader, I'll be able to handle that... ;) 

It's going to be huge! I'm looking forward to bringing a high quality of BDSM education to the Sexpo community - as well as some beautiful bondage and intense impact play scenes!