Welcome to My Site

I'm a Professional Dominatrix in Sydney with over 18yrs experience in BDSM.

I conduct sessions in My private studio close to the Sydney CBD.

I'm also a BDSM Educator, performer and member of the international leather community.


I'm in the fetish editions of Australian Penthouse, speak on Triple J's "The Hook Up", feature on ABC TV on "You Can't Ask That". I'm the Australian Adult Industry Award Winner "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" in 2017.


Please note PHONE is My preferred form of contact, both for expediency and qualitative interaction.


+61 420 879 204

Email: themistress@


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Happy Xmas & NY Holidays!

Hi A/all!

Oh My gosh! I'm writing YET ANOTHER end-of-year blog post after an EVEN BIGGER YEAR than last year. 

Wow. "Is it possible?", you ask? "YES", I confirm! (...and I'd have it no other way!)

I remember looking back over last year and thinking how bumper it was, but THIS YEAR I'm proud to say I've grown more, yet again.

Firstly, My holiday dates...

My Xmas/NY availability:

Sessioning to Dec 23

Dec 24 to Jan 7 - unavailable for appts

Available again from Jan 8

Please know I always observe strict radio silence for this period. This means that I don't check My phone, inbox or social media during this time.

A solid block of time off enables Me to come back refreshed and rejuvenated to torture the hell out of you all as creatively as possible once more in 2018. ;)

On My return on Jan 8, I'll reply to all messages ASAP. 

On to My 2017, in review...

Top of the Task list that I knocked off in 2017:

Me on ABC TV's "Growing Up Gracefully" - touche!

# I was on commercial TV, on "You Can't Ask That.." and "Growing Up Gracefully" on the ABC.

# I was also on commercial Radio on Triple J, on "The Hook Up" - 3 times!

The 2nd Fetish Ed of Australian Penthouse

# I was in Australian Penthouse AGAIN on their second Fetish Issue, then in another regular ed with an in depth interview.

# I took on a trainee, Mistress Reina - and I think she's going to be a winner!

May I present, Trainee Mistress Reina

# I finally made it to Melbourne Sexpo after having to bow out on My first invite when I nearly lost the sight in My right eye 2 years ago! (Yes, it's been 2 years)

# I was asked to speak at an Art After Hours panel at the NSW Art Gallery for the Robert Mapplethorpe exhibition, what a pleasant surprise!

At Mapplethorpe for Art After Hours at the Art Gallery NSW in My own rags

# I did My further-est outcall ever. To Glasgow. Thankyou.

# I went to Ireland, Scotland and Berlin for sessions; three places I'd not gone before.

# I won an Australian Adult Industry Award for "Best for Fantasy and Fetish".

# I celebrated TEN YEARS as an Independant Pro Domme! Yes!!!

...and what a TEN years it's been!

I didn't think I could go as far as I have - but I've already proved to Myself that all I really need to do anything is a leap of faith. I definitely didn't think that I could take this whole ride this far though, 18 years ago...

Every day I look in the mirror and I see My competition - it's a fight with tough odds! That's why I need to get up and hit it EVERY SINGLE day. (Those odds are a blessing!)

Ok. I'm out. See you all next year! (...and yes, I've got something totally new up My sleeve!)

Best, EVER!



"Growing Up Gracefully" Ep. now on Iview

Hi again A/all!

Just letting you know the episode of ABC TV's "Growing Up Gracefully" in which I feature is now online on Iview.

View the episode here for the next 3 wks only!

Best, in glorious technicolour!




On ABC TV's "Growing Up Gracefully" tonight!

Hi E/everyone!

I must say, at this point in My relatively short career, I'm having some really wonderful opportunities come My way... ;)

I was approached again by ABC TV to be on another of their programs - this time on "Growing Up Gracefully"!

It's the story of Sisters Hannah & Eliza Reilly; two misguided twentysomethings who, after rediscovering the 1950s teen-advice book 'Growing Up Gracefully', ask themselves, as young women in 2017, how do we learn to grow up?

I was asked to host Eliza Reily as she and her partner visited My dungeon to get advice on how to incorporate watersports and spanking into their growing kinky sex life!

Me in action - check Eliza's expression!

We had an excellent dialogue to break the ice, then got into some action!

For two young people relatively new to the BDSM scene, we spent a lot of time talking about what consensual kink play actually looks like, how to play safe and how to construct a scene.

I really enjoy talking about what I do to demystify kink for those outside the scene and enable access into My life as a Pro Domme and sex worker.

I hope the viewers at home get a great message!

The play was tame - for TV of course - compared to what I normally do, but it was still new and a *total* edge for both players - as you can see on Eliza's face in the above screen shot! (Blazing new trails is what I'm all about, after all!)

The episode screens tonight at 930pm on the ABC.

Tune in tonight, or in the near future on Iview when the episode is online - I'll let you know when!



Me on the ads for the program! YES!