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I'm a Professional Dominatrix in Sydney with over 18yrs experience in BDSM.

I conduct sessions in My private studio close to the Sydney CBD.

I'm also a BDSM Educator, performer and member of the international leather community.


I'm in the fetish editions of Australian Penthouse, speak on Triple J's "The Hook Up", feature on ABC TV on "You Can't Ask That". I'm the Australian Adult Industry Award Winner "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" in 2017.


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Photos from Oz Kink Fest Show

Hi A/all!

Yes!! Another AMAZING show was up in lights at Oz Kink Fest in Melbourne on Sept 22 at the big Friday night club party Hellfire Resurrection!

My wonderful co performer Paloma Negra from Paloma Negra Theatre and I took our audience on a journey with shades of contemporary dance, butoh, My customary heavily hacked shibari, latex and shoe fetish!

No 50 Shades of Grey here! lol

I love crafting shows like you've never seen before.

I find SO MUCH Shibari rope bondage show boring, but not Mine.

You NEVER know what you'll see when I take the stage!

We used normal 6mm jute rope... But then when Paloma had the watershed idea of suspension using HEAVY THICK hemp, we just went with it!

I really had a revelation during our show about our prowess together.

Paloma is really a "co-performer" and creative co-conspirator, not a "rope bunny" or a "bottom".

One other thing she is, is THE BOMB.

Thanks Paloma - and thanks SO MUCH to Oz Kink Fest for having us back another year!

Best, up in lights again!



Pics from My Shibari show @ Sydney Art Month

Hi A/all!

Just a quick blog about My show last night for Sydney Art Month at the National School of Art in honour of International Women's Day!

I suspended My friend in shibari rope bondage in a complex costume of breasts - that was half the challenge - then fisted her fabulous (fake) vagina, pulling out a sign about the death of 1st wave Feminist Art!

It was totally amazing and really abstract to bring our art and My shibari to a generally straight, serious art crowd...

They were receptive though after I started on a absurdist tip and horsed around with My friends cunt and the sign!

Here we are performing on My new collapsible portable suspension frame - a gift from some friends who didn't use it and thought I would. THANKS GUYS! :)




Shots from My fab Shibari Hybrid Trapeze show!


If you missed it, you missed the best shibari show I've done, to date, hands down.

At The Chamber last Saturday night, the amazing aerials artist and dancer Paloma Negra and I held court and presented our world first static trapeze shibari rope bondage hybrid show to a spellbound crowd!

Apparently, one mark of how good a show is is the LACK of drink sales during a performance.

I'd like to apologise to The Red Rattler for hosting us and then not making a buck when we were in the air! 

Check these images from the fabulous local photographer Roberto Duran who kindly offered to shoot Myself and Paloma Negra in performance!

The above image is Myself taking the meaning of "Rope bondage Top" to new ah, "heights"! I'm here in My very first full-on aerials move, a toe hang, (which scared the shit out of Me) on the top bar of the trap.

Thanks must go to BNB Studios Marrickville and Paloma Negra Theatre for being crucial in taking My performance to a new level of skill and daring. 

I was musing with Paloma the other day that, a few years ago, I totally felt at an impass with My performance.

Now, I'm well and truly past that. I have INVENTED a new style of hybrid performance with Paloma, bondage on the static trap.

Best, whether up or downside...



Show at The Chamber this Sat night!

Hey A/all!

I'm up in lights again, this time with My biggest and best show ever!

I'm performing alongside the amazing aerials artist, Paloma Negra from Paolma Negra Theatre, at Sydney's goth fetish club "The Chamber", this Saturday night!

We're performing our own WORLD FIRST - a static trapeze and contemporary shibari rope bondage act, one of great technical proficiency and intensity!

These are some wonderful shots by Melbourne photographer Andrew Bott from the first time we had an opportunity to showcase our skills, at Oz Kink Fest in Melbourne in 2015.

It's a great honour to manifest ideas and perform alongside such a respected and diverse artist.

Paloma Negra at Paloma Negra Theatre is a dancer, choreographer and aerialist and has been performing professionally for 23 years.

She has also trained in martial arts and in the Japanese dance art form Butoh.

Please check out her profile, I am so lucky to work with her again! Click on the image below of her in a recent performance...

Click to go to Palma's site...

If you want to come see what I'm so excited about, grab your ticket for The Chamber this Saturday night by clicking on the flyer below

At the time of writing tickets were 90% sold out, so don't miss out on this rare opportunity to see Me in one of My greatest performances in Sydney!

Best, up in lights!



Shots from Shibari at Hellfire Resurrection


Image by Andrew BottWOW! What a totally amazing show!

It's not every day that you INVENT a completely NEW GENRE OF PERFORMANCE. 

But that's just what I and the fabulous aerialist Paloma Negra just did.

Image by Andrew Bott

I met Paloma only recently but we hit it off like a house on fire!

And that's exactly what we did when we performed at Hellfire Resurrection on the 25th Sept in Melbourne for Australia's biggest BDSM event "Oz Kink Fest" - we set the house afire!

We combined My shibari prowess and Paloma's trapeze skills to create something we've NOT seen before and CAN'T find anywhere else the whole world over; a hybrid performance genre combining Shibari and Aerials, specifically the static trapeze.

(If it's not already on Youtube, it doesn't exist!!)

Image by Andrew Bott

I tied Paloma to the bottom rung of the trapeze, where she explored her shapes. I then tied Myself to the topmost "spreader bar" (yes, really!) then inverted Myself, drawing on My previous experience in self shibarisuspension. 

I then re-tied her to the same spreader bar and we hit on different classic kinbaku positions, with the final moment with Paloma exploding out of a double futomomo tie with beautiful red shibari rope hanging down! you really did need to be there to see it to believe it.

Image by Andrew Bott

We both walked off the stage knowing we'd just done something utterly intense - and also totally unique...

As soon as I have video footage, you'll see it here.

Best, in the air and on the ground!