Welcome to My Site

I'm a Professional Dominatrix in Sydney with over 18yrs experience in BDSM.

I conduct sessions in My private studio close to the Sydney CBD.

I'm also a BDSM Educator, performer and member of the international leather community.


I'm in the fetish editions of Australian Penthouse, speak on Triple J's "The Hook Up", feature on ABC TV on "You Can't Ask That". I'm the Australian Adult Industry Award Winner "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" in 2017.


Please note PHONE is My preferred form of contact, both for expediency and qualitative interaction.


+61 420 879 204

Email: themistress@


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Interview in Subspace mag w Mistress Reina

Hi A/all!

Okay so it's still just the 2nd week of Jan and...

I'm interviewed in depth in the newest edition of Subspace magazine! (BOOM)

Previously known as Sinical magazine, I'm shot in My own BDSM space and in My own latex fetish clothing with My fabulous trainee, Mistress Reina!

Check us out in another double shoot - but this time, UP IN LIGHTS - or at least, IN PRINT!

We did a great set of images in My most loved medical surgery studio with the amazingly skilled and adept Sator Photography

It was the first time I'd shot with Sator and I was utterly amazed again at how such an intense dungeon setting transforms through the lens and lighting skills of different photographers!

Wow! Thanks Sator!

Sator doesn't have a site, but he is on Instagram - check him out here and on Google+ here...

Want to check out the in depth interview? Yes, you will...

Click on the link below on the cover with Mistress Irene Boss to go to the magazine itself.

Click on the cover to go to the website!

It's going to be a HUGE year! May the media frenzy continue!

Best, again...



Back in Town & Back at Another Year!

Hi A/all!


Yes, I'm back and back at it in 2018. Whoa. Where did those holidays go?

I had 2 weeks off with some well earned RNR on the bank of a river in a tent in rural NSW with NO RECEPTION, EMAIL, or SOCIAL MEDIA! Heavenly!

I hope you all had time off too, with some great RNR.

I'm just back yesterday and ALREADY in an international fetish magazine, booked for a major Australian event mid-year and have a wedge of sessions.

It just DOESN'T STOP - and I wouldn't have it stop, either! :D 

My availabilities in Sydney, Jan 2018 onwards:

Monday to Saturday, 9am to 9pm

24hrs notice of a desire to book required

Same day bookings possible, never guaranteed

Phone is My preferred form of contact

Call Me on 0420 879 204, no private numbers

Email Me at themistress@mistresstokyo.com for written contact 

Reina and I doing it in the middle of a hot salt flat!And Yes! If you're wondering if She's still on team...

Mistress Reina is here for another year with Me.

If you've not yet met My trainee Mistress Reina, you should!

She's available to be in My sessions on a tip basis per request with next day notice required.

Please inquire to Me if you are interested in having Her play!

We were both in Perth recently for the Carnal Society party - I'll show you photos soon - as well as a catch up with the fab Wayne Henry from Warped Photography for our SECOND fetish photoshoot together!

Check the results! We aced it - despite hella heat, crazy rubber, MADCAP boots on SAND SAND SAND and WIND WIND WIND. Like - MY HAIR?

I love wearing My Fantastic Rubber custom made latex megaboobs catsuit and created some vinyl couture armour to got with it!

Reina wore My Demask inflatable boobs corset and some hot stockings over Her House of Harlot rubber catsuit!

Yes, you MOST DEFINITELY want to meet the two of us in session!

I'll look forward to seeing you all again in the new year, and may we all have a year of prosperity and happiness to come...

Best - up for it all over again for another year!



Introducing... Trainee Mistress Reina

Hi A/all!

So, I have a little bit of news that I've been keeping under My hat... 

I have a trainee.

She's been working with Me for the last few months. A few of you have met Her already in session when She's watched Me work, or had a small role.

I'm proud to say She's now taking the official step and is to be presented to the Australian and wider international BDSM community, in confluence with My brand, this week.

May I present to you, Australia’s newest BDSM and Kink professional, My trainee



Mistress Reina is available in My sessions until the end of 2017



Mistress Reina is available on a tip basis in My light to medium sessions. 

The number in bold is the final tribute for BOTH of us.

1hr session 450 (350 + 100)

90min session 550 (450 + 100)

2hr session 700 (600 + 100)


AVAILABILITY: next day notice only

Mon, Thurs to Sat - 10am to 10pm

Tues, Weds - after 9pm only


In Her own words:

Mistress Reina is a Sydney based Mistress currently training as an apprentice under Mistress Tokyo. 

“An active member of the kink scene for many years, My work as a fetish model has taken Me all around the world. 

My penchant for perversion, and hedonistic personality soon took over and I discovered that I needed to immerse Myself completely... 

Delivering Domination is what I crave.

Sadistic by nature, I am particularly pleased to conduct sessions that involve pain.

Activities that particularly pique My interest include (but are not limited to):

·      impact play/corporal punishment (flogging, caning, paddling, barehanded spanking etc),
·      ballbusting
·      CBT
·      Forniphilia /human furniture
·      foot worship/ trampling
·      financial domination
·      pegging/ strap-on
·      fisting
·      spitting
·      golden showers
·      humiliation/ degradation”

It's My opinion that the Art of BDSM is not dying, but most certainly it is becoming dissolute with the infamous 50 Shades of Grey effect, colluded with the focus of BDSM in the popular sensationalist media.

In 2017, we’ve more operators in the world industry than ever before. More - but with less skills or proficiency!

We also have the relentless interbreeding of kink and vanilla sex like never before. (I’ve heard it’s an acquired taste. lol)

Personally - if I was a client - I’d feel the need to be astute about who I sought to realize My fetish fantasies.

My Dominatrix peers and I reel in horror at stories of untrained “Mistresses” mutilating client's genitals or genuinely risking their client's life while conducting sessions they simply don’t have the experience to hold.

There’ll be none of that here. Not on My watch.

NB: Please note, Reina IS NOT new to the sex industry, nor is she a wide-eyed, unskilled novice.

Therefore, do NOT try Me with requests for Her to do body worship, nudity, full service or sub in sessions.

(I stipulate this as, remarkably, I've received requests to this point already AND THAT'S DISRESPECTFUL - both to being a trainee and to being a Mistress.)


We're available to do light to medium sessions together on the above advertised rate until further notice -until Mistress Reina is fully trained and experienced enough to conduct Her own sessions.

She’s already well integrated into the industry, locally and internationally. I'm excited to say that She’s already a fine professional, belying Her time already in training.

Please note, next day notice is required to secure the two of us in session. The availabilities above are Reina's - Mine are unchanged.

If you are interested in discussing the possibility of an audience with us, call Me on 0420 879 204 or email Me on themistress@mistresstokyo.com.

Best, in excellent company!



Sessions in Melb til Fri 22, Oz Kink Fest til Mon 25

Hi A/all!

I'm down in Melbourne and looking forward to a HUGE weekend of Oz Kink Fest and all that that entails! 

But, before all this can happen - I'm looking forward to My sessions with My favourite slaves in Melbourne!

I've only precious time left in My schedule but I still can take on a couple of appointments. 

If you wish to meet for a session, call Me on 0420 879 204 to discuss your desires.

I'm available via email, but prefer to talk in real time, most particularly if the session is same day or next day.

My availabilities in Melbourne:

Weds to 5pm

Thurs 10am to 10pm

Fri 10am to 5pm

I'm conducting sessions at the Collingwood Confidential in Collingwood.

I can be available on 3hrs notice; next day notice is preferred, but do try Me to see if our schedules align.

Please text Me instead of leaving a voicemail as I don't check them - if you miss Me, I'll return your text at My earliest convenience!

On to Australia's premier 10 day kink event, now in it's 10th year - Oz Kink Fest!

Tonight, I'm on a Q&A panel of fetish and kink sex workers addressing working in BDSM.

The event is called "Frisky Business" and will be held at a private venue next to Lucrezia and De Sade in Brunswick St.

I'm hugely honoured to be asked to be on this panel as I've not seen an event like this before in Australia!

The tickets are already sold out so I'm already sure it'll be a great night! I'm looking forward to learning what is on the mind of the wider non-professional community to ask seasoned pros like Me!

I've got a big new show I'm presenting with My fabulous co-performer Paloma Negra on Friday night at the big Oz Kink party - Hellfire Resurrection!

An image from our last show at Oz Kink Fest in 2015

I'll be doing shibari like you've not seen it before! Paloma and I have crafted a totally new show harnessing our rope skills, her background in dance and butoh and our own particular kinky sexy fetish "tendencies"! Watch out for those heels!!! :)

I must say, it's really wonderful to be honing My performance relationship with someone as experienced and skilled as Paloma Negra. We've been performing together for over 4 years and I'm so blessed to have this creative relationship in My life!

Then on Sat and Sun, I'm offering 5 workshops to the Oz Kink Fest community:

  • - Sounds and Catheters on Cis Men
  • - CBT on Cis men
  • - Takedown Bondage
  • - Heavy Sensory Deprivation
  • - Mending Latex Clothing 101

I love presenting these workshops as I get to talk on My favourite topics! All the core material is My own and is distilled from 17 years of professional domination at an elite level, sessioned around the globe.

In addition this this, I believe it's imperative we share our skills so that we can all grow together stronger in our fabulous lifestyle.

See you in Melbourne, slaves and lifestyle kinksters alike!




3 days off over My Birthday, Sept availabilities

Hi A/all,

I'm taking a well earned rest for a couple of days over My birthday weekend before My tour of Melbourne and My commitments at Oz Kink Fest!

I'm only in Sydney for specific dates for the rest of the month, so here they are...

Catch Me if you can!! ;)

My availability for rest of Sept:

In Sydney from now until Thurs 14

Available NEXT Mon 18 ONLY

In Melbourne for sessions from Tues 19-Fri 22

Presenting workshops and a show at Oz Kink Fest 23-24

In Sydney for sessions again Tues 26

Over My short holiday period, I'll not be available on My phone after Weds night this week.

I'll take calls and check My email from Sun 17.

Re My Melbourne tour, I'll be checking My inbox and available on My phone as per usual.

I still have times available for sessions in Melbourne - but do call instead of emailing Me, most particularly if you wish to book short notice, ie. a next day meet.

(I have a jam packed schedule already and won't have time to sit down to check My email with My normal vigilance!)

Do expect delays on comms over the Oz Kink Fest weekend, it's always such a busy time for Me.

I'll post again about My Melbourne tour and Oz Kink Fest next week! See you all after My bit of birthday time off! :)