Welcome to My Site

I'm a Professional Dominatrix in Sydney with over 18yrs experience in BDSM.

I conduct sessions in My private studio close to the Sydney CBD.

I'm also a BDSM Educator, performer and member of the international leather community.


I'm in the fetish editions of Australian Penthouse, speak on Triple J's "The Hook Up", feature on ABC TV on "You Can't Ask That". I'm the Australian Adult Industry Award Winner "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" in 2017.


Please note PHONE is My preferred form of contact, both for expediency and qualitative interaction.


+61 420 879 204

Email: themistress@


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Happy Xmas & NY Holidays!

Hi A/all!

Oh My gosh! I'm writing YET ANOTHER end-of-year blog post after an EVEN BIGGER YEAR than last year. 

Wow. "Is it possible?", you ask? "YES", I confirm! (...and I'd have it no other way!)

I remember looking back over last year and thinking how bumper it was, but THIS YEAR I'm proud to say I've grown more, yet again.

Firstly, My holiday dates...

My Xmas/NY availability:

Sessioning to Dec 23

Dec 24 to Jan 7 - unavailable for appts

Available again from Jan 8

Please know I always observe strict radio silence for this period. This means that I don't check My phone, inbox or social media during this time.

A solid block of time off enables Me to come back refreshed and rejuvenated to torture the hell out of you all as creatively as possible once more in 2018. ;)

On My return on Jan 8, I'll reply to all messages ASAP. 

On to My 2017, in review...

Top of the Task list that I knocked off in 2017:

Me on ABC TV's "Growing Up Gracefully" - touche!

# I was on commercial TV, on "You Can't Ask That.." and "Growing Up Gracefully" on the ABC.

# I was also on commercial Radio on Triple J, on "The Hook Up" - 3 times!

The 2nd Fetish Ed of Australian Penthouse

# I was in Australian Penthouse AGAIN on their second Fetish Issue, then in another regular ed with an in depth interview.

# I took on a trainee, Mistress Reina - and I think she's going to be a winner!

May I present, Trainee Mistress Reina

# I finally made it to Melbourne Sexpo after having to bow out on My first invite when I nearly lost the sight in My right eye 2 years ago! (Yes, it's been 2 years)

# I was asked to speak at an Art After Hours panel at the NSW Art Gallery for the Robert Mapplethorpe exhibition, what a pleasant surprise!

At Mapplethorpe for Art After Hours at the Art Gallery NSW in My own rags

# I did My further-est outcall ever. To Glasgow. Thankyou.

# I went to Ireland, Scotland and Berlin for sessions; three places I'd not gone before.

# I won an Australian Adult Industry Award for "Best for Fantasy and Fetish".

# I celebrated TEN YEARS as an Independant Pro Domme! Yes!!!

...and what a TEN years it's been!

I didn't think I could go as far as I have - but I've already proved to Myself that all I really need to do anything is a leap of faith. I definitely didn't think that I could take this whole ride this far though, 18 years ago...

Every day I look in the mirror and I see My competition - it's a fight with tough odds! That's why I need to get up and hit it EVERY SINGLE day. (Those odds are a blessing!)

Ok. I'm out. See you all next year! (...and yes, I've got something totally new up My sleeve!)

Best, EVER!



In-depth Australian Penthouse interview

Hi again A/all!

My ongoing relationship of mutual love continues with Australian Penthouse!

This time, I'm interviewed in depth talking about the ins and outs of My work in July for their most recent edition, online and in print!

If you want to read the interview online, go here and check it out...

It's accompanied by images by Sydney's amazing erotic photographer Roberto Duran.

I'm clad in full leathers playing with a male slave - the same set that appeared in print firstly in the most recent "Fetish" edition of Penthouse, earlier in the year...

Remember these shots?

I have a few magazines here for My lucky slaves if you want your own copy!

If you can't get in to see Me, grab an in-store copy ASAP as they might dry up by the end of next week!




I've won an Australian Adult Industry Award!

Hi A/all!

I woke up to a very lovely surprise last week when I looked at My Twitter account...

I've been awarded "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" at the Australian Adult Industry Awards in 2017!

It was a surprise to be nominated in the fist instance, forget actually win something! (shucks!) 

Check the website for the AAIA here!

I'd like to thank all those who nominated Me, and also to those who voted for Me!

My congratulations go to all the other winners in the many other categories. Well done to be top of your game in this country!

My greatest encouragement to those nominated alongside Me in the "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" category. May the best person win next year, with My best of luck!

Regardless of any accolades, I maintain to keep trying to be a positive force in My industry, to be a relevant speaker for My community, to include and celebrate all peoples, and to aim to give back to those with whom I connect, whether in work or play.




In Fetish ed II of Australian Penthouse!

Mistress Tokyo shot by Roberto Duran for Australian Penthouse

Hi A/all!

They wanted Me back, so I gave them what they wanted - in full, old skool, luxurious leather...

I'm featuring again in Australian Penthouse Fetish edition 2, April 2017!

Yes, this blog post is about something somewhat historical, but I've been so darn busy telling you all about when I'm in and or out of this country here recently, it got prioritized down the list of things to shout out about!

Shot by Roberto Duran again, I'm switching it up from My last appearance as Covergirl and centrefold in the inaugural - and fastest selling ever - Fetish ed of Australian Penthouse.

This time I'm the centrefold in military leather and Muir cap, cigar smoking, shot with a male slave playing with him tied and Me doing what I do best! ;)

The cover of the Cat 1 and Cat 2 editions of Penthouse

I also penned a piece for their Forum; erotic fiction to accompany My shoot.

It's a story about a power hungry, voracious, sexually Dominant female who takes a male slave by force.

She ties him, plays with him and then uses Her strap-on on him... Art imitates life, as they do say!

Writing about leather protocol and a hardcore SM Mistress was going to be different for Penthouse, but I wanted to throw them a curve ball as a departure from their normal content.

I hope it challenges their readers to be exposed to "real" BDSM play, not the watered down "50 Shades of Grey" story lines not about genuine bondage and discipline.

Apparently it's one of the hottest things they've ever read.

I'm glad to be Penthouse's go to person for real kink!

I'm really flattered - but it's just another scene from My fabulous BDSM lifestyle! ;)

One of the best smoking images of Me ever!

If you want to obtain a copy of either the Cat 1 or Cat 2 magazines, I still have a few here.

Shooting with Roberto Duran always creates amazing glamorous artistic images, and this time he hasn't disappointed.

Our shoot netted some of the most beautiful, graceful images of Me smoking in leather I've ever seen.

So, even if you only get the magazine "for the articles", you'll see one of My best leather shoots ever! :)

I've been sending them all overseas so far, so if you're in Australia and come in to serve Me soon, remember to ask Me for a copy!

Best, in print again...


What to look for if you try find one on the shelves!