Welcome to My Site

I'm a Professional Dominatrix in Sydney with over 17yrs experience in BDSM.

I conduct sessions in My private studio close to the Sydney CBD.

I'm also a BDSM Educator, performer and member of the international leather community.


I'm in the fetish editions of Australian Penthouse, speak on Triple J's "The Hook Up", feature on ABC TV on "You Can't Ask That". I'm the Australian Adult Industry Award Winner "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" in 2017.


Please note PHONE is My preferred form of contact, both for expediency and qualitative interaction.


+61 420 879 204

Email: themistress@


Contact Me:

Mistress Tokyo by Soul Focus Studio 2011

Within Australia: 0420 879 204

Overseas Callers: +61 420 879 204

Email: themistress@mistresstokyo.com


Available 10AM - 9PM AEST, Mon - Sat


Please note, phone is My preferred form of contact.

The best advice to those who desire a session is to be respectful. Acting in an appropriate manner will institute you in My favour quicker than an offer of a pair of custom-made crotch-high boots.

Training is something I offer but I expect a base level of conduct with all My slaves - whether in session or out.

Inappropriate behaviour will be punished appropriately.

Phone Etiquette:

Please DO NOT leave a voice message. Send a text message and I’ll get back to you at My earliest convenience, even if that is the next day or Monday morning.



My studio is situated in a private house in a discreet location, 10-15 minutes by taxi from the Sydney CBD.


I do not entertain the inebriated.

Do not arrive late - if you are running late due to circumstances beyond your control, text or call Me.

Do not arrive early - My absolute pet hate.

Remember your manners - I have no qualms reminding you of them if you are forgetful.

I will deal with you appropriately if your personal hygiene is not to My standards.


Want to buy your Mistress something as a sweetener for your session? What a lovely idea...



I prefer big Australian reds and dry whites - do not buy weak, simpering red. Wine must have the vitality of blood.

Perfume & Fragrance:

I am allergic to many scents and wear a muted fragrance. Calvin Klein Obsession - For Men (Not Women) is a favourite.



Please note flowers are not a preference as I have allergic reactions to many blooms. Bird of Paradise or similar scentless tropicals are My favourite.