Welcome to My Site

I'm a Professional Dominatrix in Sydney with over 18yrs experience in BDSM.

I conduct sessions in My private studio close to the Sydney CBD.

I'm also a BDSM Educator, performer and member of the international leather community.


I'm in the fetish editions of Australian Penthouse, speak on Triple J's "The Hook Up", feature on ABC TV on "You Can't Ask That". I'm the Australian Adult Industry Award Winner "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" in 2017.


Please note PHONE is My preferred form of contact, both for expediency and qualitative interaction.


+61 420 879 204

Email: themistress@


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Life Drawing at Art Gallery NSW "Art After Hours" for Mardi Gras

Hi A/all!

I've been so busy over Mardi Gras and My tour of Melbourne I've not even had spare time to blog!

I do beg your pardon. 5 shows in 1.5 weeks over 2 states while balancing sessions, flights, 4 successful public workshops, building a studio AND circadian rhythms? Hell yes, I'm your perp!! 

LET'S WRAP IT UP, like pallet wrap:

A truly wonderful thing I was asked to do for the Sydney Mardi Gras festival was to host Life Drawing for the Queer Edition for the regularly fabulous Wednesday night "Art After Hours" night at the Art Gallery of New South Wales.

Just stand there and look shiny? Not on My watch - not with the fabulous Paloma Negra from Paloma Negra Theatre in tow either, we STOOD and SHONE up a storm!

Some of the shots below are from the wonderful attendees, including some drawings!

We had 40 easels and drawing boards around us. I said to Paloma that "If we could cause enough ruckus to fill 60% of those for MOST of the 2 hour slot, I'd be content."

Talk about content. Turns out, WE MADE GREAT CONTENT! lol

At one point, people were sooooooooo stuffed into the room, people couldn't get in - or out. Such was the jam, such was the unanimous response.

Thanks Sydney, and a HUGE thank you to the Art Galley of NSW for having Me back AGAIN in conjunction with the incredibly popular Robert Mapplethorpe exhibition.

As shot on the day, below! Enjoy!

Best, as art...


Paloma and I in our final drawing tableau - she in My inflatable BALL gown, Me drawing rope out of the zipper in her inflatable loveliness!

Us in our first tableau with Me doing the rope bondage, natch...

...to our third tableau - which we called Clean Qween!

As I stood there to be drawn, I called out, "Spot the Feminist".

Thankfully, people appreciated My black humour! 

Our second tableau was sure to be a crowd pleaser.

My beautiful uchikake (Japanese wedding kimono) with some asymmetrical tying and some take (bamboo) looked bloody amazing even if I say so Myself.


My mobile not working this week..!!

Hi A/all,

I've just found out this morning by accident that My mobile has not been working this week. (insane!!)

Therefore, if you've texted or called Me this week, please know I've not replied because I actually didn't get your message.

This Friday morning, I received 28 messages from slaves as far flung as Seattle and Aberdeen, including all My Sydney people.

All at once. 

If you text or message Me, please send a back up email if you don't hear from Me in a timely fashion.

Yes, I stipulate that phone is My preferred form of contact.

But only when it is FUNCTIONING.

Best - and I wouldn't recommend Optus for a business partner.



In Melb for Workshops at Eagle Leather Mar 10-11

Hi A/all!

I'm tripping down to Melbourne March 10 & 11 to hold workshops at Eagle Leather!

It's been ages since I presented at Eagle Leather; we've talked about doing something something but we've just not got our act together.

So I'm really excited I'm presenting for My favourite fetish store in the country - nay the Southern Hemisphere - with 4 of My BEST kink education presentations!

Have a look at each link below to go straight to the Eagle Leather website to view the workshop and to buy your ticket.


Sat March 10

Sun March 11


At the time of writing, Latex 101 was nearly sold out after being online for not even a day!! Thanks Melbourne!

I'm only flicking down to Melbourne for the weekend so I'm not available for sessions - I'll be back in Sydney too soon!


Availability for sessions in Sydney:

Not available Sat March 10

Available again in Sydney Tues March 13


If you want to find out more about Eagle Leather - who are such an amazing touchstone for the Australian scene in so many different ways - view their site by clicking on the banner below...

Best, interstate for your further education!



Sessions with international guest Lady Valeska

Hi A/all!

Just when My studio is kicking ass, the first 6 months of My year are BOOMING and I've so many creative projects I couldn't be happier...

I'm also really excited to say I'm to be hosting My friend from Canada, pro Domme and lady of latex, Lady Valeska!

Now, we all know how hot latex is, right?

I know I'm preaching to the choir here - but TWO hot women in rubber on your case? It surely couldn't get much better?

Oh yes it could!

Not only is Lady Valeska a rubber Domme, she's also a SADIST. She and I have EVEN MORE in common!

Lady Valeska, in her own words...

"Lady Valeska is the epitome of Alpha Female.

Dominance is an integral party of Her every fiber.

She is refined, educated, independent, and ambitious.

Her 6′ statuesque presence will inspire you to be taken to your edge.

Whether it is tickle torture, ashtray play, high protocol, humiliation, sissification or latex worship; She has a passion for it all!

She derives pure exhilaration from your suffering. your mind, body and ego will be for Her amusement. you will be on your knees begging for more.

Dare to jump down the rabbit hole?"


Okay SIGN ME UP you exclaim! 

She's only here for a short time and bookings are strictly a first-come, first-Dominated basis. 

Bookings will also attrach a non-refundable deposit, deliverable to Me via bank deposit or Paypal.


Our availabilities together while Lady V is in Sydney:

March 1,2 3 and 5 ONLY

Please inquire to Me on 0420 879 204 to discuss your session desires

There are limited sessions spots - and Valeska already has bookings!

Session tributes start at 650 for 1hr of light to medium play

Please inquire if you've a fantasy you would like us to cater to or a scene you wish to explore

Bookings available on a NEXT DAY basis only




Interview in Subspace mag w Mistress Reina

Hi A/all!

Okay so it's still just the 2nd week of Jan and...

I'm interviewed in depth in the newest edition of Subspace magazine! (BOOM)

Previously known as Sinical magazine, I'm shot in My own BDSM space and in My own latex fetish clothing with My fabulous trainee, Mistress Reina!

Check us out in another double shoot - but this time, UP IN LIGHTS - or at least, IN PRINT!

We did a great set of images in My most loved medical surgery studio with the amazingly skilled and adept Sator Photography

It was the first time I'd shot with Sator and I was utterly amazed again at how such an intense dungeon setting transforms through the lens and lighting skills of different photographers!

Wow! Thanks Sator!

Sator doesn't have a site, but he is on Instagram - check him out here and on Google+ here...

Want to check out the in depth interview? Yes, you will...

Click on the link below on the cover with Mistress Irene Boss to go to the magazine itself.

Click on the cover to go to the website!

It's going to be a HUGE year! May the media frenzy continue!

Best, again...