Welcome to My Site

I'm a Professional Dominatrix in Sydney with over 15yrs experience in BDSM.


I conduct sessions in My private studio close to the Sydney CBD.


I'm also a BDSM Educator, kink performer and active member of My leather community.

 

Please note PHONE is My preferred form of contact, both for expediency and qualitative interaction.

Contact:

+61 420 879 204

Email: themistress@

mistresstokyo.com


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Friday
May262017

"You Can't Ask That..." In ABC program on S&M

 

Hi A/all!

If you've not already seen it - of Me - I'm in a ABC documentary program on S&M called "You can't ask that...".

Recently aired on the ABC, now on Iview as of April 8th, you can view the episode via the link on the bottom image from the ABC site.

The crux of the program is the home audience emails questions they feel they "can't ask" in person to a group of people from a marginalized or taboo social group.

So far the program has featured sex workers, migrants, ice users, people with Downs Syndrome, etc. It's in it's second series already and is very well received!

My friend and I doing the hard yards!

I was honoured to be on the program as a voice for our Australian community!

So far, all the feedback I've received on My input has been really positive. :)

An interesting side effect has been I've been recognized by many people outside of the kink community, generating some interesting conversations with those unfamiliar with My work or profile!  

Click on this image to go to the Iview video

In the last 2 years and for the first time ever, I've finally been willing to speak to popular media about BDSM and being a sex worker and Dominatrix. 

17 years ago, I'd NEVER have talked to any media outlets! Our work as Mistresses was totally hush-hush and it was looked down upon to break our professional silence...

Now, with the increasing visibility of S&M and alternative sexuality in popular media, films, on TV I believe there's never been a better time to offer Myself as a credible source for information about Professional Domination, sex work and BDSM.

"50 Shades of Grey" effect? BRING IT ON!!!

Best, now on TV!

MT


Monday
May152017

BACK IN SYDNEY, back at sessions!

I walked into the Feitsh Fair at the German Feitsh Ball and saw pics of Me at the Massad magazine stand! Thanks Bert!

Hi A/all,

I'm wheels down/heels down in Sydney town again and back at sessions in Australia!

Did you miss Me? ;) I officially had a BLAST of a time. Offish.

A taste of the Tawse for slave g in the Dungeons of Mistress Scarlett!

I loved Glasgow because it felt homely, welcoming and because I had so many great sessions...

I was flown up to Scotland after all, by My slave g. Here's a shot of Me beating g, in the boots he gifted Me!

Many thanks to Mistress Scarlett for taking these shots and for accommodating Me at Her great Dungeons!

Ballbusting in 12" heels for a lucky Glasgow slave in the Dungeons of Mistress Scarlett!

I loved Berlin because I went to the German Fetish Ball for the first time, modelled for Skin Two for the big night itself and got to session at the AMAZING Studio Avalon!

Backstage at the German Fetish Ball modelling for Honour/Skin Two !

Setting foot in Berlin, quite literally...

A vac bed set up at Studio Avalon - paradise!A walk in cube cage at Studio Avalon - I was dying to do a suspension in here!

I loved London because I always seem to work My ass off with sessions, both with My regular long term slaves AND new slaves.

I sessioned at Murder Mile Studios, with many thanks to Mistress Morrigan Hel for being so accommodating!

I loved Ireland... HANG ON!!! I went to Ireland, too?

YES, I got flown to Scotland from Australia AND ALSO Ireland from London, by TWO different slaves. Some have all the luck - and I feel VERY lucky!!

So, now I'm back!

My availabilities in Sydney:

9am to 10pm 6 days per week

No Sunday sessions

Same day appts possible, never guaranteed

24hrs notice for an appt is optimal

World class studios in Leichhardt, 10mins from CBD

Call 0420 879 204 or email themistress@mistresstokyo.com

See you all sooner before I take off again, which actually won't be long! (I'm in Japan in 2wks!!)

Best - and I keep getting better...

MT

Friday
Apr212017

A DECADE as an Independant Dominatrix! 

One of My seminal hero images by Lucas Messerer from Soul Focus StudioHi A/all,

March 3 2007 was the fateful day I emailed Amanda Dwyer at Salon Kittys to announce My leaving to focus on making latex clothing under My now historical label, Gomu Latex.

3 weeks later, I conducted My first session as an independant Domme, hiring space from Mistress Servalan at Her old studio in Ashfield. (holla at Me if you remember?)

I read My horoscope on Sept 15 2007 after taking on the lease at what was to become My first BDSM studio in Glebe. It claimed that "today was the first day of the rest day of My life". Touche.

It was also My 29th birthday - but the terrible horoscopical cliche ran true; it was indeed the time of the start of My coming of age both as a Pro and a Domme, as future world-recognized brand, international kink educator, rope bondage performer, latex maker.

I had very little cash and very few clients. I saved everything I made and put it back into My business - which I'm still doing! I just figured that if I worked hard, delivered as best I could 24/7, and was consistent, I'd be on a winner.

One of our best images ever, with Soul Focus Studio

Meeting Luke from Soul Focus Studio was one of the greatest points on the map of My career. We have created such amazing fetish imagery together and just enjoyed such wonderful times, as friends, co-creatives and kinksters. Thanks mate. You are now a legend in the world wide sense, as you so rightly deserve. I still remember that morning I got an email to say we were FINALLY in Heavy Rubber mag...

I started to travel to LA and became a model for Bootlovers.com. I also started to write for Tony Mitchell's "The Fetishistas" blog, and covered Australian kink topics for over 4 years.

After I got up some speed as a Pro Domme, I was then asked to educate. I ran workshops in Melbourne and Sydney for different entities and became known for My watershed "Sensory Deprivation Bondage" and Aikido inspired "Takedown Bondage" workshops. I gave up My Sundays and week nights to Uber to teach people how to have better, safer, sexier play lives.

I was awarded Sydney Ms Leather in 2012 and then My confidence in contributing to My community really had ballast. Under the auspice of SLPA and The Oxford Hotel, I competed in San Francisco for the International Title.

I then came home to run Rope Flow, a rope group raising funds for Twenty 10. I then co-convened the Sydney Fetish League, presenting the titles of Sydney Mr and Ms Fetish. 

I started to present at events in Florida and hold workshops down the East Coast, including NYC. My style was desired, so I was flown by community entities in those cities to present and perform - a very great privilege. With Beyond Leather in Florida I hosted the Australian Power Exchange contest. 

These days of working in this community paradigm are pretty much over for Me, and I'd rather focus on My own events with My new space as a different way to contribute to My community.

I outgrew My studio in Glebe and 18 months ago I graduated to a new benchmark. I'm now building a bigger better and more fabulous studio in Leichhardt, incorporating a workshop area called PEAK Space for the afore mentioned community events. I've graduated My "space holding" skills from one-on-one sessions, to multi-person events.

I'm still here, still learning, still hungry and still creative. Game on.

What a ride.

TEN YEARS of hard consistent work as one of Australia's best independants

TWO BDSM dungeons later

Los Angeles. Tokyo. Osaka. Florida. New York. London. Amsterdam. Lyon. Thanks for the perspective. 

Piles of rubber, all the gear a Domme could want and a HUGE collection of the best fetish boots in the world.

And now, breaking new boundaries of a different kind on the cover of Penthouse...

See you in another decade!

Best, ever!

MT

 

And so I land on the cover of Australian Penthouse, thanks to Roberto Duran

Thursday
Mar302017

Europe travel, April 22 - May 11

Hi A/all!

No, I don't stand still. Stillness is for monks, or the dead. (Or those in My heavy bondage! lol)

For a person who's done the majority of My traveling miles in the US, it looks like I've given that place a good enough going over. I've now got My sights firmly set somewhere else.

I'm all over Europe like glitter.

 Again, so soon after My hugely successful Oct 2016 tour?

I'm BEING FLOWN THERE BY A SLAVE FOR A SESSION.

(thanks, slave g!)

 

My dates are as follows:

Available in Sydney to Fri April 21 inclusive

Glasgow: April 23 - 26

Berlin: April 26 - May 2

London: May 2 - 5

Lyon: May 5-8 (not taking sessions)

Ex London on May 9, landing in Sydney May 11

Available in Sydney Sat May 13

 

In Glasgow from April 23 - 26, I'll session in the studios of Mistress Scarlet. We share a number of slaves - one slave, in particular!

I'm actually in Europe expressly to session with Mistress Scarlet and slave g. Who's a lucky, lucky boy?

 

In Berlin from April 26 to May 2, I'm excited to announce I'll session in THE world class dungeon, Studio Avalon.

This place has been a personal dream studio and aesthetic muse for many years! I hope I'll really get My teeth into this place while in Germany! 

 

Naturally, I'll be mixing business in with the pleasure, or the other way around? lol

I'm intending to visit Berlin specifically for the German Fetish Ball, April 27 to May 1.

I've not been to Berlin - or this event - before, so I'm very excited about the people I'll meet and the things I'll see!

 

After I raise My head from THAT weekend, I'll be back in London May 2 - 5 for sessions at Morrigan Hel's Murder Mile studios.

I've sessioned there before on My previous trip and really enjoyed it's spaciousness, atmosphere and central location. It'll be a pleasure to be there again!

 

To My new European slaves:

If you wish to session with Me in any of these cities, please be in touch via email at themistress@mistresstokyo.com.

Please know I'm already nearly booked out in both Glasgow and London with My existing slaves.

I'm not currently attending My UK mobile, so be aware I'm available to discuss a session on My Australian mobile +61 420 879 204 only up until Heathrow.

I'll keep you all updated on My trip as it approaches over the next 3wks.

Yes, I promise I'll send a postcard..!

Best, wheels up again...

MT

 

Thursday
Mar092017

Pics from My Shibari show @ Sydney Art Month

Hi A/all!

Just a quick blog about My show last night for Sydney Art Month at the National School of Art in honour of International Women's Day!

I suspended My friend in shibari rope bondage in a complex costume of breasts - that was half the challenge - then fisted her fabulous (fake) vagina, pulling out a sign about the death of 1st wave Feminist Art!

It was totally amazing and really abstract to bring our art and My shibari to a generally straight, serious art crowd...

They were receptive though after I started on a absurdist tip and horsed around with My friends cunt and the sign!

Here we are performing on My new collapsible portable suspension frame - a gift from some friends who didn't use it and thought I would. THANKS GUYS! :)

Best,

MT