Welcome to My Site

I'm a Professional Dominatrix in Sydney with over 18yrs experience in BDSM.

I conduct sessions in My private studio close to the Sydney CBD.

I'm also a BDSM Educator, performer and member of the international leather community.


I'm in the fetish editions of Australian Penthouse, speak on Triple J's "The Hook Up", feature on ABC TV on "You Can't Ask That". I'm the Australian Adult Industry Award Winner "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" in 2017.


Please note PHONE is My preferred form of contact, both for expediency and qualitative interaction.


+61 420 879 204

Email: themistress@


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Article on My rope group "Rope Flow" in DDI Mag!

Hi A/all!

Been wondering where I've been? Me too! I've been as SICK AS A DOG with what I'm nicknaming the Zombie Death Flu! :( :( :(

I've been under the weather for the last couple of weeks - with a good % of that time spent languishing in bed. Hence My lack of blogging here and near silence online on Facebook, Twitter, etc. As most of you know, it takes more than a well-placed 9mm slug to keep Me down, but this thing had Me beat. Happily, I'm alllll goooood now... ;)

Watch this blog over the next few days as I've shots of recent sessions and fabulous leather gear to come! But, for today, I'm really pleased to say that "Rope Flow", My rope bondage group, has been featured in prominent international fetish magazine Domination Directory International! (DDI Mag)

The article tells a little of Me as "Sydney Ms Leather 2012" title holder, with Rope Flow being a promise fulfilled to the local community to deliver a place for people to grow their rope skills in a supportive, friendly environment. We meet once a month in Darlinghurst at The Oxford Hotel on a Sunday afternoon with Me holding the space with "Sydney Mr Leather 2012" Richard Savvy. 

Click on the banner above to go to the DDI Mag website!

Want a copy of DDI all your own? Check out the mag here at it's website - it's a fabulous read! Or grab one when you are in the States or EU zone next! Unfortunately, DDI mag is not distributed in Australia, but you are more than welcome to check out the article when you are next here in session - I have a few copies here in My studio!

See you at My boots sooner!



5yrs independent & still going strong!

Image by Lucas Messerer from Soul Focus Studio

Hi A/all!

I can't believe it but I've been an independent pro Domme now for 5 years!

As I've often said, I had no idea how much work, commitment and passion it'd take to become a private Mistress and build My own studio. The windfall gain has most certainly been how I've grown in that time though and the things I've accomplished - not just the fact that Tokyo is alive, well and still whipping yo' ass!

I've become a much more accomplished Domme than I ever could have been if I'd stayed at a commercial house. I've really been able to spread My wings and distill My own particular session style. I've gone a lot further into fetish and BDSM than I ever thought possible - and I love it!

I've become a published mojo (mobile journalist) for Tony Mitchell's TheFetishistas.com, covering the local Australian kink and fetish scene, with the odd foray into international events.

I've become a renowned fetish model, mainly via Bootlovers.com. (We have another issue out soon, btw. Yes, you WON'T BELIEVE the boots I'm wearing!)

I was awarded the honour of "Sydney Ms Leather 2012", competing in San Francisco in March 2012 for the "International Ms Leather" title. As this year's titleholder, I'm a notable at Sydney Leather Pride Events alongside the fabulous Richard Savvy, "Sydney Mr Leather 2012". Under this mantle, I've started My own public monthly GLBTIQ rope bondage group, called "Rope Flow".

I've designed and manufactured My own latex for My personal wardrobe, totally unique heavy play gear for My own studio and custom garments for select members of the Sydney community.

In addition to all this, I continue to enjoy the most amazing creative collaboration with Lucas Messerer from Soul Focus Studio. Luke and I work so well together, Me posing in My best and him behind the camera making his magic images. I've been so lucky to work with Luke - as well as to be able to call him a solid buddy.

To celebrate the fabulous occasion, here's a sneak peek of a new shoot Luke and I did, just a few weeks back! 

Want to see what else Luke has been up to recently? Click on the pic below to go to his site, see his work and even to buy one of his books! (Yes, those ARE My ballet booted legs! lol)

Click on the image to go to Luke's site...

These images have just hit the web at deepdownandkinky.com, too - so see them here and on this infamous UK-based fetish blog, watched by so many!

If you want to catch up with what else Craig at DDK has been posting, click on the banner below to go to his blog. You'll be sure to see images of Me there, every now and then! ;)

Click on the banner to go to Deep Down and Kinky!

I'm really proud to say that I'm still charged up and creatively stimulated, 5 years later!

I can't wait to see what the next 5 years will bring and, for sure, if you knew what I'm currently working on, you'd be damn excited too! ;) ;) ;)




Article in DDI Mag re My competing at IMsL 2012!

Hi E/everyone!

Here's a little bit of late news regarding My representing Australia as "Sydney Ms Leather 2012" at "International Ms Leather" in San Francisco last March!

There's an article published about Me competing in the most recent edition of "Domination Directory International" magazine (DDI) no #74! See the hot cover shot above...

Click on the banner link above to go to the DDI website to read about the great history of this world-renowned fetish magazine - and to buy a copy by snail mail!

Unfortunately for My Australian based slaves, you won't be able to read the article that documents My tenure as Sydney Ms Leather at IMsL unless you find yourself beyond our sunny shores - as the mag is not in circulation in Australia! If you happen to find yourself in the US, UK or Eurozone you shouldn't have any issues finding yourself a copy though...

Or just come into My studio and get Me to read the article to you - perhaps while you're all tied up? lol ;)

See you sooner - in boots AND in print!