Welcome to My Site

I'm a Professional Dominatrix in Sydney with over 18yrs experience in BDSM.

I conduct sessions in My private studio close to the Sydney CBD.

I'm also a BDSM Educator, performer and member of the international leather community.


I'm in the fetish editions of Australian Penthouse, speak on Triple J's "The Hook Up", feature on ABC TV on "You Can't Ask That". I'm the Australian Adult Industry Award Winner "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" in 2017.


Please note PHONE is My preferred form of contact, both for expediency and qualitative interaction.


+61 420 879 204

Email: themistress@


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3 days off over My Birthday, Sept availabilities

Hi A/all,

I'm taking a well earned rest for a couple of days over My birthday weekend before My tour of Melbourne and My commitments at Oz Kink Fest!

I'm only in Sydney for specific dates for the rest of the month, so here they are...

Catch Me if you can!! ;)

My availability for rest of Sept:

In Sydney from now until Thurs 14

Available NEXT Mon 18 ONLY

In Melbourne for sessions from Tues 19-Fri 22

Presenting workshops and a show at Oz Kink Fest 23-24

In Sydney for sessions again Tues 26

Over My short holiday period, I'll not be available on My phone after Weds night this week.

I'll take calls and check My email from Sun 17.

Re My Melbourne tour, I'll be checking My inbox and available on My phone as per usual.

I still have times available for sessions in Melbourne - but do call instead of emailing Me, most particularly if you wish to book short notice, ie. a next day meet.

(I have a jam packed schedule already and won't have time to sit down to check My email with My normal vigilance!)

Do expect delays on comms over the Oz Kink Fest weekend, it's always such a busy time for Me.

I'll post again about My Melbourne tour and Oz Kink Fest next week! See you all after My bit of birthday time off! :)




Shibari Lessons, BDSM Couples Training

Want Me to show you how to do this?

Hi A/all,

Over the last couple of years people have, with increasing frequency, asked Me whether I provide "training" or private classes outside the workshops I facilitate.

Usually, these are people who have seen Me do My shibari rope in a workshop or a performance and want to learn how to tie.

Some also are curious about going deeper into SM, either as a couple or single person looking to up-skill.

I'm happy say that those who want to benefit from My skills in a one-on-one context can now do so!

I now offer two streams of training:

"Shibari Lessons" and

"Couples BDSM Training"

I've had a such a response to this notion I've created a new page on My site here devoted to just training! :)

Want to learn how to tie with Me?

Shibari Lessons:

I have trained under some of the best Nawashi and Shibari practitioners in the world. I have formed My own style, influenced by Satomi (Osaka) and Osada Steve (Tokyo). I combine these shibari influences with My training in Takemusu Aikido, bringing a circular celerity to My movement and a martial percussivity to My approach. 

I can assist you with the basics of starting to tie rope, through chest harnesses, to partial and full suspension. I can also advise you on aesthetics and sensibilities that may accent your rope and enrich it, as it has Mine. 

My time for this style of interaction is $100 per hour for 1 student with a model, whether a basics or an advanced class.

 Two is fun - but three is better!

Couples Training:

Do you both want to explore BDSM but don't know where to start?

I can tutor you in topics like:

  • Rope and other forms of bondage
  • Impact play including spanking, flogging, caning, etc.
  • Needle play
  • Anal play and fisting
  • Electrical Play - TENS machine or Violet Wand
  • Constructing a scene that flows
  • Health and Safety, First Aid

All training sessions are conducted in My studio and My time for this style of interaction is $100 per hour. This is different from a session and is purely an educational experience.

Yes, I am most definitely happy to see couples in session, too - My pleasure! ;)


If you are interested in training with Me, do check My new "Training" page on this site!

Please then feel free to send an email to





In Melb Sept 25-29 for Sessions, "Oz Kink Fest"

Hi A/all!

It seems I'm back in Sydney *just* long enough to be traveling again - this time to Melbourne for Australia's biggest kink event, "Oz Kink Fest"! (Phew! Where does it end? LOL It doesn't!)


My session dates in Melbourne:

Thurs 25thFri 26th Sept only


As per usual, I'll conduct My sessions at Collingwood Confidential, close to the Melbourne CBD. Please note, I'm NOT AVAILABLE over the Oz Kink Fest weekend.

Unsurprisingly, My time is extremely limited in Melbourne. Thusly, only bookings with a confirmation by deposit are considered.

If you are interested in meeting in Melbourne on one of these two dates, please do be in contact on My mobile 0420 879 204 or email Me directly at themistress@mistresstokyo.com.

I'll look forward to hearing from the slaves I met on My last trip to Vic - and hope to meet some new ones, too!

And... I'm also in Melbourne for "Oz Kink Fest"! :D

Click thru to the Oz Kink Fest site...

Oz Kink Fest is in it's 7th year and I'm proud to be contributing to this amazing event again for the 4th time!

I'm conducting 5 workshops and doing a shibari show at Hellfire Resurrection Friday night!

"Oz Kink Fest brings fetish enthusiasts, experts and retailers together for 10 days of workshops, parties, performances and trade across a number of inner-city venues."

It's 10 days of constant action! There's a Fetish Expo market with it's own Expo After Party, Hellfire Resurrection Party, 2 days of workshops on a diversity of topics, then ANOTHER Stay and Play Party afterwards. Holey crap, it's a BIG ONE! :O

And, to My great delight, I've been asked to be one of the headline bondage shows at the Friday night Hellfire Resurrection party! I have an exciting shibari bondage scene forming right now - and I can't wait to develop it further..!

Click on this poster to go to the Oz Kink Fest site...

My 5 workshops over the weekend of the 27th/28th are; "CBT: Women on Men""Sex Rope: Non-Japanese Basics", My now infamous "Heavy Sensory Deprivation Bondage", My new and improved - fresh from the USA -"Takedown Bondage" and the BRAND NEW-NEW "Catheters and Sounds on Cis-men".

It's going to be a massive weekend after two days of sessions! I've got a busy, busy life - and I'd not change that for all the お茶 in Japan...

I'll look forward to hearing from My Victorian slaves again for a taste of their hospitality on My short trip South!