Welcome to My Site

I'm a Professional Dominatrix in Sydney with over 18yrs experience in BDSM.

I conduct sessions in My private studio close to the Sydney CBD.

I'm also a BDSM Educator, performer and member of the international leather community.


I'm in the fetish editions of Australian Penthouse, speak on Triple J's "The Hook Up", feature on ABC TV on "You Can't Ask That". I'm the Australian Adult Industry Award Winner "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" in 2017.


Please note PHONE is My preferred form of contact, both for expediency and qualitative interaction.


+61 420 879 204

Email: themistress@


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Photos from Oz Kink Fest Show

Hi A/all!

Yes!! Another AMAZING show was up in lights at Oz Kink Fest in Melbourne on Sept 22 at the big Friday night club party Hellfire Resurrection!

My wonderful co performer Paloma Negra from Paloma Negra Theatre and I took our audience on a journey with shades of contemporary dance, butoh, My customary heavily hacked shibari, latex and shoe fetish!

No 50 Shades of Grey here! lol

I love crafting shows like you've never seen before.

I find SO MUCH Shibari rope bondage show boring, but not Mine.

You NEVER know what you'll see when I take the stage!

We used normal 6mm jute rope... But then when Paloma had the watershed idea of suspension using HEAVY THICK hemp, we just went with it!

I really had a revelation during our show about our prowess together.

Paloma is really a "co-performer" and creative co-conspirator, not a "rope bunny" or a "bottom".

One other thing she is, is THE BOMB.

Thanks Paloma - and thanks SO MUCH to Oz Kink Fest for having us back another year!

Best, up in lights again!



Back in Sydney, new gear from Europe!

Image by Luke Messerer at Soul Focus StudioHi A/all,

Finally, I turn My back on travel for 2017 - at least international travel - and am back in Sydney once more!

I'm here until at least Oz Kink Fest in Melbourne in September - and that feels good. 

I've been in 6 different countries in the last 6 weeks. I think that's enough. For now. Perhaps. :D

My availabilities in Sydney:

9am to 10pm 6 days per week

No Sunday sessions

Same day appts possible, never guaranteed

24hrs notice for an appt is optimal

World class studios in Leichhardt, 10mins from CBD

Call or text 0420 879 204

Email themistress@mistresstokyo.com

The wonderful windfall gain about traveling is buying new gear you can't find in Australia!

I've a few new pieces from London and the German Fetish Ball in Berlin...

Masters of Steel are SERIOUS lovers of metal play gear - just like Me!

I finally got the chance to be in the same room as them in Berlin and immediately spent nearly all My lunch money.

I have A LOT of metal gear, most for cock and ball torture, and I've just added THIS stainless steel spiked parachute to My extensive collection!

Here's an anaesthesia mask to add to My already extensive gas mask collection; a specialized mask just for inhalation from the boys at Regulation...

I have a great range of electrical gear already for My ErosTek, already...

Here's another style of estim plug for those less experienced with invasive play; it's bi pole to operate on it's own, without another terminal, giving it even more range of play.

Finally, My most favourite purchase - a Masters of Steel dildo with spreader bar!

This is a really solid, beautifully crafted, gorgeously devious device in stainless steel that I can't wait to use!

See you all sooner, at My boots Sydney-side!



Image by Luke Messerer at Soul Focus Studio


Holiday In Japan May 31 - June 8

One of the top 3 "Views of Japan", the great Torii at Miyajima

Hi A/all!

What? I'm off again? Yes, but only for 1 week. (And actually for a HOLIDAY, finally!)

I'm in My favourite country Japan for 7 days from 31 May to 8th June.

My availabilities are:

Available for sessions in Sydney May 30 inc.

Unavailable from Weds 31 May

Available via AUS phone & email as per usual

Back in Sydney Thurs June 8

Available for sessions Friday June 9, from 10am

I've not got any kink activities planned for My week away, but I'm sure I'll find something to keep Me amused!

Be sure to follow My Instagram, Facebook and Twitter so you can see all My updates from Japan!



The utterly beautiful, Fuji Yama, in Springtime


Back from Holidays, Back at Sessions!

Hi A/all!


To those who've bum rushed My show and ALREADY been in to see Me, it's wonderful to be back in Sydney once more and back at sessions for 2017!

I was officially back last week, but have been SO BUSY since then I've not been able to blog here! lolz yas!

Another year, another chance to get out there and kick ass twice into next week. Power up, people!

My first week back started with a funeral for a dear friend. Let's just say that that set a tone for the year.

That tone exactly? See the above statement re "ass kicking"...

May 2017 be another big one, although not much could top last year..? (see My previous posting on exactly WHAT I stacked into 2016, it was a TONNE.)

There is a BDSM studio to finish building. From prior experience, it takes AT LEAST 2yrs. We've already started on the THIRD room. (Yes, a 3rd!)

There are travel plans to cement. This year I'll be at the German Fetish Ball in Berlin late April to early May. Then Japan. Then..?

There's parties to plan and workshops to host. Now that PEAK Space is finally complete, I have the space in which to implement those ideas...

But firstmost, My sessions with you, My slaves. 

My availability in Sydney until late April

Available for bookings 10am to 10pm

6 days per week - no appts Sundays

Allow at least 24hrs hours notice of a booking

Same day appts are possible, never guaranteed

Call 0420 879 204 or email at themistress@mistresstokyo.com

And, check these NEW shots of Me from Luke Messerer at Soul Focus Studio!

As many of you know, Lucas has recently moved to the US. These days, I shoot with him whenever I can - although I regret it's not as often as we used to... Thanks for these pics, mate!

I'm shot in My custom made mega boobs latex catsuit from Fantastic Rubber in Germany. I SOO adore this suit and never want to take it off, I love getting lost in playing in it!

THIS was My first shoot in it, ever. I dragged this outfit around Europe last year and it'll be My pleasure to carry this 4kg suit in My hand luggage yet again in Europe THIS year! Enjoy! ;)

Best, for anther year...



Show at Rubber Bastard Party

Get your tickets to Me on stage!

I'm back on stage for the VERY LAST Rubber Bastard party this Saturday night!

..and YES THAT'S ME ON THE POSTER, in My best and heaviest latex! ;)

I'll be on stage with one of My strangest shows... I CAN'T let the cat out of the bag, you'll just have to some along and see Me and the fabulous performer and aerialist Paloma Negra lighting up the stage, in full rubber!

Tickets are $35 at Eventbrite - click on the banner above to get your tickets before they sell out!

It's being held at Eleven Nightclub on Oxford St - who says the strip is totally dead? :)