Welcome to My Site

I'm a Professional Dominatrix in Sydney with over 17yrs experience in BDSM.

I conduct sessions in My private studio close to the Sydney CBD.

I'm also a BDSM Educator, performer and member of the international leather community.


I'm in the fetish editions of Australian Penthouse, speak on Triple J's "The Hook Up", feature on ABC TV on "You Can't Ask That". I'm the Australian Adult Industry Award Winner "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" in 2017.


Please note PHONE is My preferred form of contact, both for expediency and qualitative interaction.


+61 420 879 204

Email: themistress@



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At Sexpo in Melbourne 17-19 Nov

Hi A/all,

I'm flying down to Melbourne tonight for Sexpo!

Don't worry, I'm just gone for 3 days - I'll be back in Sydney Tues 21st Nov to resume your usual fetish programming...

I'm doing not one but TWO >>HUGE<< Shibari X Trapeze shows on the Main Stage with My amazing co-performer, Paloma Negra!

Catch us on the stage in the big room at 1730 BOTH nights!

It's not the first time we've presented this show in Melbourne, but we've developed and DEEPENED the performance connection we have so much since Oz Kink Fest back in 2015. 

We're also REALLY excited to be performing on a 7300mm rig at Jeff's Shed. (YES!!! It won't get any bigger in this country! WOOF!!)

We're also having the show professionally shot by the amazing Israeli photographer Asaf Sultan.

He's shooting us for a rope bondage documentary he is compiling, so Paloma and I are naturally PRETTY STOKED to be involved with his project!

I've been asked by My wonderful and perpetually excellent friends at Eagle Leather to present TEN workshops for them in their Fetish Playroom

I said yes the moment they asked as it was 2 years ago when I cancelled the same appointment due to My retinal detachments!!

I'm so glad to be celebrating almost perfect vision 2 years on with My workshops offerings in 2017:

  • How to have Kinky Sex Tonight
  • BDSM 101 - Q&A
  • Heavy Sensory Deprivation and...
  • Shibari Bondage Rope Class!

Sexpo has already started but you can grab your tickets AND additional tickets to the Fetish Playroom online at the above link!

Best, having a ball on stage and in service to the Australian community!



Demos at Sexpo in Melb this wkend!

Hi A/all!

I'm making yet another trip to Melbourne this weekend - this time to present BDSM demos at Eagle Leather's The Fetish Room at Sexpo!

I'll be on site at Australia's biggest and brightest sexuality expo from 8pm on Saturday 6th and from noon to 6pm on Sunday 7th, presenting demos on a diversity of SM topics!


My demo kink presentation list:


8pm - Prostate massage

9pm - Rubber play

10pm - Rope for Sex

11pm - Sounds



12noon - Rope for Sex

2pm - Sounds

3pm - Rubber play

4pm - Cock and Ball Torment

5pm - Rope for Sex

6pm - Rubber play


I'll be demoing each slot for about 30mins. Any workshops that are repeated will have similar content, so if you miss My first latex play demo, do come to the second one!

I'm bringing My amazing inflatable rubber balloon, some of My collection of Cock and Ball Torture gear, My shibari rope for the bondage basics demos and then rigging for advanced play - suspension - as well as My wit and dry sense of humour! ;)

Want to find out more about how to see Me present My wealth of knowledge about kink - as well as all the other fabulous stuff Eagle Leather's Fetish Room has on offer? Check out the Sexpo website below...


I'm not in Melbourne that often normally, but this year I've visited Victoria 3 times in the last month! That's a record - for sessions, Oz Kink Fest, the Fantastic Party and NOW Sexpo!

Unfortunately, I'll not be available for sessions this time as it's quite simply a flying visit!

Be sure to catch Me at Sexpo this weekend if you seek an audience with Me, and to sample My unique presentation workshop style!

Best, all over Australia!



2 Workshops at Eagle Leather 19th, 20th March

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Hi again A/all,

I'm back in Melbourne next week for sessions - if you hadn't noticed - but I'm also back for another round of BDSM workshops!

I'm presenting two workshops at Eagle Leather. They are one of Australia's few enduring premier BDSM, kink and fetishwear stores and have been operating for many years in Victoria.

This time I'm presenting an oldie but a goodie, My very popular "CBT: Women on Men". I've presented this twice before to a packed house of CBT enthusiasts of different genders and levels of experience.

In addition to this fab workshop, I'm then presenting the totally new "Sex Rope". I'm designing this beginners workshop to show basic rope ties for penetrative sex that are quick, simple and totally practical!


Click on the link below to find out more about My "Sex Rope" workshop on Wednesday 19th:

Click on the image to book for the workshop


If you can't see the workshop link, just click on one of the many picture of Myself that Eagle have all over their fabulous site! lol They are sooo nice! :)


Click on the link below to find out more about My "CBT: Women on Men" workshop on Thursday 20th:

Click on the image to book for the workshop

Regarding sessions in Melbourne, I still have a good amount of time on Thursday day so be in touch before My time is completely gobbled up! I'm already quite heavily booked the other two days in the daytime but could still potentially meet if your time is flexible.

I had a lovely conversation with a slave from The House of Domination yesterday! (For those not familiar, THOD was a small but excellent old school house of BDSM, before the licensing legislation changed in Vic where a venue had to have a prostitution licence) I'd love to re-acquaint with as many slaves from that time as I can. I'll look forward to discussing old times and how THOD went through change over time!

Be in touch and we can discuss a session! See you next week in Melbourne!




Wrap up for "Oz Kink Fest", with show shots!

Hi A/all!

Long time no blogging! (I just had to have that tantalizing picture of Mistress Satomi at the top of My site for a little bit longer to tease you all...)

I've recently realized just HOW BUSY I've been this year - VERY busy! So much so, I've A LOT I want to share here before I go on holiday over New Year. I've accomplished so much in the latter part of 2013 in particular, that I'd like to wrap up a few of those things...

At the end of September I flew to Melbourne for the Oz Kink Fest! I did a show at the Fetish Expo, held three workshops on different kink topics at Eagle Leather and, as reining "Sydney Ms Leather 2012", was a judge for the inaugural "Australian Master/slave" title contest!

Shuga, My co-performer, and I did a really successful shibari bondage show! (That's us in the matching transparent blue latex up there!)

I was unsure how we'd go as we didn't get a chance to rehearse in the venue before we went on stage - but we aced it! I tied her into suspension in under 6 minutes and, as she spun through different aerial positions, I cut her down with a live blade!

The look on the faces of the local bondage lovers as I cut the blood red, expensive hemp rope with a knife, dropping it to the stage floor with less care, was priceless! I'm ashamed to admit it but I LOVE shocking people - although often not in the way you'd think! ;)

The contest for the "Australian Master/slave" title was small but intense, with all the anticipation and nervous excitement of "International Ms Leather" where I Myself competed over 1.5 years ago!

Into the judging room...

The competition was between four couples - all passionate about the kink lifestyle and eager to talk about what it means to them to be a title holder. The contest was designed to showcase what a Master/slave relationship can be, with the winning couple to be a figurehead of the community to foster growth and accomplishment.

On stage during a speech for the contest

As a judge, I asked questions to draw each couple out about who and how they are as a couple in a power exchange relationship, and how they could assist their community if the won the title. It was tight - with the winning couple taking the title by a narrow margin...

The contestants, judges - and winners!

So, congratulations to Syr Mad Dog and aimizuki (at the front above) as the first title holders of the "Australian Master/slave" title, and My very best for their work for their community over the next year!

I'll be back again soon with shots from My shows from the WA Fetish Ball over Halloween! See you sooner...




Melbourne 23rd to 27th May, Workshops @ Eagle Leather

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Hi E/everyone!

I'm going to be in Melbourne for the first time in a long time for sessions and also to conduct a 3 day weekend of workshops at Eagle Leather! My dates in Victoria are:

Thursday 23rd to Monday 27th May, inclusive

all who would wish an audience with Me should contact Me post haste on

My mobile 0420 879 204 or

at themistress@mistresstokyo.com

Please be aware My time in Melbourne will be very tight. If you wish to session with Me, be certain and W/we can make a date at My earliest convenience.

Click to go to the Eagle Leather site... 

It's My very great pleasure to present at Eagle for the first time! When I first moved to Melbourne, I distinctly remember their store was one of My first ports of call! My home town of Perth had nothing like it - and I went like a moth to a flame! ;)

But not just for My first serious kink purchases, also for workshops! I even distinctly remember attending a workshop on Electrical Play. Now, My own workshops for Uber on Electrical Play are renowned! Hence My pride - I am returning to the source to provide for the wellspring... :) Joy!

The workshops I'll be presenting are:

  • BDSM 101
  • CBT - Women on Men
  • Heavy Sensory Deprivation Bondage
  • Rubber Play
  • My totally new "Bondage Takedowns" workshop

If you want to see details of My 5 workshops just click on the shot below to go straight to the Eagle Leather website. you can book with ease from there at their online store...

Click to go to My list of workshops!

See you there! I can't wait to be back sessioning in Melbourne again - and to be assisting Eagle Leather with supporting the Melbourne community!

Best - with pride!