Welcome to My Site

I'm a Professional Dominatrix in Sydney with over 18yrs experience in BDSM.

I conduct sessions in My private studio close to the Sydney CBD.

I'm also a BDSM Educator, performer and member of the international leather community.


I'm in the fetish editions of Australian Penthouse, speak on Triple J's "The Hook Up", feature on ABC TV on "You Can't Ask That". I'm the Australian Adult Industry Award Winner "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" in 2017.


Please note PHONE is My preferred form of contact, both for expediency and qualitative interaction.


+61 420 879 204

Email: themistress@


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"Growing Up Gracefully" Ep. now on Iview

Hi again A/all!

Just letting you know the episode of ABC TV's "Growing Up Gracefully" in which I feature is now online on Iview.

View the episode here for the next 3 wks only!

Best, in glorious technicolour!




On ABC TV's "Growing Up Gracefully" tonight!

Hi E/everyone!

I must say, at this point in My relatively short career, I'm having some really wonderful opportunities come My way... ;)

I was approached again by ABC TV to be on another of their programs - this time on "Growing Up Gracefully"!

It's the story of Sisters Hannah & Eliza Reilly; two misguided twentysomethings who, after rediscovering the 1950s teen-advice book 'Growing Up Gracefully', ask themselves, as young women in 2017, how do we learn to grow up?

I was asked to host Eliza Reily as she and her partner visited My dungeon to get advice on how to incorporate watersports and spanking into their growing kinky sex life!

Me in action - check Eliza's expression!

We had an excellent dialogue to break the ice, then got into some action!

For two young people relatively new to the BDSM scene, we spent a lot of time talking about what consensual kink play actually looks like, how to play safe and how to construct a scene.

I really enjoy talking about what I do to demystify kink for those outside the scene and enable access into My life as a Pro Domme and sex worker.

I hope the viewers at home get a great message!

The play was tame - for TV of course - compared to what I normally do, but it was still new and a *total* edge for both players - as you can see on Eliza's face in the above screen shot! (Blazing new trails is what I'm all about, after all!)

The episode screens tonight at 930pm on the ABC.

Tune in tonight, or in the near future on Iview when the episode is online - I'll let you know when!



Me on the ads for the program! YES!


"You Can't Ask That..." In ABC program on S&M


Hi A/all!

If you've not already seen it - of Me - I'm in a ABC documentary program on S&M called "You can't ask that...".

Recently aired on the ABC, now on Iview as of April 8th, you can view the episode via the link on the bottom image from the ABC site.

The crux of the program is the home audience emails questions they feel they "can't ask" in person to a group of people from a marginalized or taboo social group.

So far the program has featured sex workers, migrants, ice users, people with Downs Syndrome, etc. It's in it's second series already and is very well received!

My friend and I doing the hard yards!

I was honoured to be on the program as a voice for our Australian community!

So far, all the feedback I've received on My input has been really positive. :)

An interesting side effect has been I've been recognized by many people outside of the kink community, generating some interesting conversations with those unfamiliar with My work or profile!  

Click on this image to go to the Iview video

In the last 2 years and for the first time ever, I've finally been willing to speak to popular media about BDSM and being a sex worker and Dominatrix. 

17 years ago, I'd NEVER have talked to any media outlets! Our work as Mistresses was totally hush-hush and it was looked down upon to break our professional silence...

Now, with the increasing visibility of S&M and alternative sexuality in popular media, films, on TV I believe there's never been a better time to offer Myself as a credible source for information about Professional Domination, sex work and BDSM.

"50 Shades of Grey" effect? BRING IT ON!!!

Best, now on TV!