Welcome to My Site

I'm a Professional Dominatrix in Sydney with over 18yrs experience in BDSM.

I conduct sessions in My private studio close to the Sydney CBD.

I'm also a BDSM Educator, performer and member of the international leather community.


I'm in the fetish editions of Australian Penthouse, speak on Triple J's "The Hook Up", feature on ABC TV on "You Can't Ask That". I'm the Australian Adult Industry Award Winner "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" in 2017.


Please note PHONE is My preferred form of contact, both for expediency and qualitative interaction.


+61 420 879 204

Email: themistress@


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In Melb for Workshops at Eagle Leather Mar 10-11

Hi A/all!

I'm tripping down to Melbourne March 10 & 11 to hold workshops at Eagle Leather!

It's been ages since I presented at Eagle Leather; we've talked about doing something something but we've just not got our act together.

So I'm really excited I'm presenting for My favourite fetish store in the country - nay the Southern Hemisphere - with 4 of My BEST kink education presentations!

Have a look at each link below to go straight to the Eagle Leather website to view the workshop and to buy your ticket.


Sat March 10

Sun March 11


At the time of writing, Latex 101 was nearly sold out after being online for not even a day!! Thanks Melbourne!

I'm only flicking down to Melbourne for the weekend so I'm not available for sessions - I'll be back in Sydney too soon!


Availability for sessions in Sydney:

Not available Sat March 10

Available again in Sydney Tues March 13


If you want to find out more about Eagle Leather - who are such an amazing touchstone for the Australian scene in so many different ways - view their site by clicking on the banner below...

Best, interstate for your further education!



Sessions with international guest Lady Valeska

Hi A/all!

Just when My studio is kicking ass, the first 6 months of My year are BOOMING and I've so many creative projects I couldn't be happier...

I'm also really excited to say I'm to be hosting My friend from Canada, pro Domme and lady of latex, Lady Valeska!

Now, we all know how hot latex is, right?

I know I'm preaching to the choir here - but TWO hot women in rubber on your case? It surely couldn't get much better?

Oh yes it could!

Not only is Lady Valeska a rubber Domme, she's also a SADIST. She and I have EVEN MORE in common!

Lady Valeska, in her own words...

"Lady Valeska is the epitome of Alpha Female.

Dominance is an integral party of Her every fiber.

She is refined, educated, independent, and ambitious.

Her 6′ statuesque presence will inspire you to be taken to your edge.

Whether it is tickle torture, ashtray play, high protocol, humiliation, sissification or latex worship; She has a passion for it all!

She derives pure exhilaration from your suffering. your mind, body and ego will be for Her amusement. you will be on your knees begging for more.

Dare to jump down the rabbit hole?"


Okay SIGN ME UP you exclaim! 

She's only here for a short time and bookings are strictly a first-come, first-Dominated basis. 

Bookings will also attrach a non-refundable deposit, deliverable to Me via bank deposit or Paypal.


Our availabilities together while Lady V is in Sydney:

March 1,2 3 and 5 ONLY

Please inquire to Me on 0420 879 204 to discuss your session desires

There are limited sessions spots - and Valeska already has bookings!

Session tributes start at 650 for 1hr of light to medium play

Please inquire if you've a fantasy you would like us to cater to or a scene you wish to explore

Bookings available on a NEXT DAY basis only




Back in Town & Back at Another Year!

Hi A/all!


Yes, I'm back and back at it in 2018. Whoa. Where did those holidays go?

I had 2 weeks off with some well earned RNR on the bank of a river in a tent in rural NSW with NO RECEPTION, EMAIL, or SOCIAL MEDIA! Heavenly!

I hope you all had time off too, with some great RNR.

I'm just back yesterday and ALREADY in an international fetish magazine, booked for a major Australian event mid-year and have a wedge of sessions.

It just DOESN'T STOP - and I wouldn't have it stop, either! :D 

My availabilities in Sydney, Jan 2018 onwards:

Monday to Saturday, 9am to 9pm

24hrs notice of a desire to book required

Same day bookings possible, never guaranteed

Phone is My preferred form of contact

Call Me on 0420 879 204, no private numbers

Email Me at themistress@mistresstokyo.com for written contact 

Reina and I doing it in the middle of a hot salt flat!And Yes! If you're wondering if She's still on team...

Mistress Reina is here for another year with Me.

If you've not yet met My trainee Mistress Reina, you should!

She's available to be in My sessions on a tip basis per request with next day notice required.

Please inquire to Me if you are interested in having Her play!

We were both in Perth recently for the Carnal Society party - I'll show you photos soon - as well as a catch up with the fab Wayne Henry from Warped Photography for our SECOND fetish photoshoot together!

Check the results! We aced it - despite hella heat, crazy rubber, MADCAP boots on SAND SAND SAND and WIND WIND WIND. Like - MY HAIR?

I love wearing My Fantastic Rubber custom made latex megaboobs catsuit and created some vinyl couture armour to got with it!

Reina wore My Demask inflatable boobs corset and some hot stockings over Her House of Harlot rubber catsuit!

Yes, you MOST DEFINITELY want to meet the two of us in session!

I'll look forward to seeing you all again in the new year, and may we all have a year of prosperity and happiness to come...

Best - up for it all over again for another year!



At Sexpo in Melbourne 17-19 Nov

Hi A/all,

I'm flying down to Melbourne tonight for Sexpo!

Don't worry, I'm just gone for 3 days - I'll be back in Sydney Tues 21st Nov to resume your usual fetish programming...

I'm doing not one but TWO >>HUGE<< Shibari X Trapeze shows on the Main Stage with My amazing co-performer, Paloma Negra!

Catch us on the stage in the big room at 1730 BOTH nights!

It's not the first time we've presented this show in Melbourne, but we've developed and DEEPENED the performance connection we have so much since Oz Kink Fest back in 2015. 

We're also REALLY excited to be performing on a 7300mm rig at Jeff's Shed. (YES!!! It won't get any bigger in this country! WOOF!!)

We're also having the show professionally shot by the amazing Israeli photographer Asaf Sultan.

He's shooting us for a rope bondage documentary he is compiling, so Paloma and I are naturally PRETTY STOKED to be involved with his project!

I've been asked by My wonderful and perpetually excellent friends at Eagle Leather to present TEN workshops for them in their Fetish Playroom

I said yes the moment they asked as it was 2 years ago when I cancelled the same appointment due to My retinal detachments!!

I'm so glad to be celebrating almost perfect vision 2 years on with My workshops offerings in 2017:

  • How to have Kinky Sex Tonight
  • BDSM 101 - Q&A
  • Heavy Sensory Deprivation and...
  • Shibari Bondage Rope Class!

Sexpo has already started but you can grab your tickets AND additional tickets to the Fetish Playroom online at the above link!

Best, having a ball on stage and in service to the Australian community!



Introducing... Trainee Mistress Reina

Hi A/all!

So, I have a little bit of news that I've been keeping under My hat... 

I have a trainee.

She's been working with Me for the last few months. A few of you have met Her already in session when She's watched Me work, or had a small role.

I'm proud to say She's now taking the official step and is to be presented to the Australian and wider international BDSM community, in confluence with My brand, this week.

May I present to you, Australia’s newest BDSM and Kink professional, My trainee



Mistress Reina is available in My sessions until the end of 2017



Mistress Reina is available on a tip basis in My light to medium sessions. 

The number in bold is the final tribute for BOTH of us.

1hr session 450 (350 + 100)

90min session 550 (450 + 100)

2hr session 700 (600 + 100)


AVAILABILITY: next day notice only

Mon, Thurs to Sat - 10am to 10pm

Tues, Weds - after 9pm only


In Her own words:

Mistress Reina is a Sydney based Mistress currently training as an apprentice under Mistress Tokyo. 

“An active member of the kink scene for many years, My work as a fetish model has taken Me all around the world. 

My penchant for perversion, and hedonistic personality soon took over and I discovered that I needed to immerse Myself completely... 

Delivering Domination is what I crave.

Sadistic by nature, I am particularly pleased to conduct sessions that involve pain.

Activities that particularly pique My interest include (but are not limited to):

·      impact play/corporal punishment (flogging, caning, paddling, barehanded spanking etc),
·      ballbusting
·      CBT
·      Forniphilia /human furniture
·      foot worship/ trampling
·      financial domination
·      pegging/ strap-on
·      fisting
·      spitting
·      golden showers
·      humiliation/ degradation”

It's My opinion that the Art of BDSM is not dying, but most certainly it is becoming dissolute with the infamous 50 Shades of Grey effect, colluded with the focus of BDSM in the popular sensationalist media.

In 2017, we’ve more operators in the world industry than ever before. More - but with less skills or proficiency!

We also have the relentless interbreeding of kink and vanilla sex like never before. (I’ve heard it’s an acquired taste. lol)

Personally - if I was a client - I’d feel the need to be astute about who I sought to realize My fetish fantasies.

My Dominatrix peers and I reel in horror at stories of untrained “Mistresses” mutilating client's genitals or genuinely risking their client's life while conducting sessions they simply don’t have the experience to hold.

There’ll be none of that here. Not on My watch.

NB: Please note, Reina IS NOT new to the sex industry, nor is she a wide-eyed, unskilled novice.

Therefore, do NOT try Me with requests for Her to do body worship, nudity, full service or sub in sessions.

(I stipulate this as, remarkably, I've received requests to this point already AND THAT'S DISRESPECTFUL - both to being a trainee and to being a Mistress.)


We're available to do light to medium sessions together on the above advertised rate until further notice -until Mistress Reina is fully trained and experienced enough to conduct Her own sessions.

She’s already well integrated into the industry, locally and internationally. I'm excited to say that She’s already a fine professional, belying Her time already in training.

Please note, next day notice is required to secure the two of us in session. The availabilities above are Reina's - Mine are unchanged.

If you are interested in discussing the possibility of an audience with us, call Me on 0420 879 204 or email Me on themistress@mistresstokyo.com.

Best, in excellent company!