Welcome to My Site

I'm a Professional Dominatrix in Sydney with over 18yrs experience in BDSM.

I conduct sessions in My private studio close to the Sydney CBD.

I'm also a BDSM Educator, performer and member of the international leather community.


I'm in the fetish editions of Australian Penthouse, speak on Triple J's "The Hook Up", feature on ABC TV on "You Can't Ask That". I'm the Australian Adult Industry Award Winner "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" in 2017.


Please note PHONE is My preferred form of contact, both for expediency and qualitative interaction.


+61 420 879 204

Email: themistress@


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In Fetish ed II of Australian Penthouse!

Mistress Tokyo shot by Roberto Duran for Australian Penthouse

Hi A/all!

They wanted Me back, so I gave them what they wanted - in full, old skool, luxurious leather...

I'm featuring again in Australian Penthouse Fetish edition 2, April 2017!

Yes, this blog post is about something somewhat historical, but I've been so darn busy telling you all about when I'm in and or out of this country here recently, it got prioritized down the list of things to shout out about!

Shot by Roberto Duran again, I'm switching it up from My last appearance as Covergirl and centrefold in the inaugural - and fastest selling ever - Fetish ed of Australian Penthouse.

This time I'm the centrefold in military leather and Muir cap, cigar smoking, shot with a male slave playing with him tied and Me doing what I do best! ;)

The cover of the Cat 1 and Cat 2 editions of Penthouse

I also penned a piece for their Forum; erotic fiction to accompany My shoot.

It's a story about a power hungry, voracious, sexually Dominant female who takes a male slave by force.

She ties him, plays with him and then uses Her strap-on on him... Art imitates life, as they do say!

Writing about leather protocol and a hardcore SM Mistress was going to be different for Penthouse, but I wanted to throw them a curve ball as a departure from their normal content.

I hope it challenges their readers to be exposed to "real" BDSM play, not the watered down "50 Shades of Grey" story lines not about genuine bondage and discipline.

Apparently it's one of the hottest things they've ever read.

I'm glad to be Penthouse's go to person for real kink!

I'm really flattered - but it's just another scene from My fabulous BDSM lifestyle! ;)

One of the best smoking images of Me ever!

If you want to obtain a copy of either the Cat 1 or Cat 2 magazines, I still have a few here.

Shooting with Roberto Duran always creates amazing glamorous artistic images, and this time he hasn't disappointed.

Our shoot netted some of the most beautiful, graceful images of Me smoking in leather I've ever seen.

So, even if you only get the magazine "for the articles", you'll see one of My best leather shoots ever! :)

I've been sending them all overseas so far, so if you're in Australia and come in to serve Me soon, remember to ask Me for a copy!

Best, in print again...


What to look for if you try find one on the shelves!


Back in Sydney, new gear from Europe!

Image by Luke Messerer at Soul Focus StudioHi A/all,

Finally, I turn My back on travel for 2017 - at least international travel - and am back in Sydney once more!

I'm here until at least Oz Kink Fest in Melbourne in September - and that feels good. 

I've been in 6 different countries in the last 6 weeks. I think that's enough. For now. Perhaps. :D

My availabilities in Sydney:

9am to 10pm 6 days per week

No Sunday sessions

Same day appts possible, never guaranteed

24hrs notice for an appt is optimal

World class studios in Leichhardt, 10mins from CBD

Call or text 0420 879 204

Email themistress@mistresstokyo.com

The wonderful windfall gain about traveling is buying new gear you can't find in Australia!

I've a few new pieces from London and the German Fetish Ball in Berlin...

Masters of Steel are SERIOUS lovers of metal play gear - just like Me!

I finally got the chance to be in the same room as them in Berlin and immediately spent nearly all My lunch money.

I have A LOT of metal gear, most for cock and ball torture, and I've just added THIS stainless steel spiked parachute to My extensive collection!

Here's an anaesthesia mask to add to My already extensive gas mask collection; a specialized mask just for inhalation from the boys at Regulation...

I have a great range of electrical gear already for My ErosTek, already...

Here's another style of estim plug for those less experienced with invasive play; it's bi pole to operate on it's own, without another terminal, giving it even more range of play.

Finally, My most favourite purchase - a Masters of Steel dildo with spreader bar!

This is a really solid, beautifully crafted, gorgeously devious device in stainless steel that I can't wait to use!

See you all sooner, at My boots Sydney-side!



Image by Luke Messerer at Soul Focus Studio


Holiday In Japan May 31 - June 8

One of the top 3 "Views of Japan", the great Torii at Miyajima

Hi A/all!

What? I'm off again? Yes, but only for 1 week. (And actually for a HOLIDAY, finally!)

I'm in My favourite country Japan for 7 days from 31 May to 8th June.

My availabilities are:

Available for sessions in Sydney May 30 inc.

Unavailable from Weds 31 May

Available via AUS phone & email as per usual

Back in Sydney Thurs June 8

Available for sessions Friday June 9, from 10am

I've not got any kink activities planned for My week away, but I'm sure I'll find something to keep Me amused!

Be sure to follow My Instagram, Facebook and Twitter so you can see all My updates from Japan!



The utterly beautiful, Fuji Yama, in Springtime


"You Can't Ask That..." In ABC program on S&M


Hi A/all!

If you've not already seen it - of Me - I'm in a ABC documentary program on S&M called "You can't ask that...".

Recently aired on the ABC, now on Iview as of April 8th, you can view the episode via the link on the bottom image from the ABC site.

The crux of the program is the home audience emails questions they feel they "can't ask" in person to a group of people from a marginalized or taboo social group.

So far the program has featured sex workers, migrants, ice users, people with Downs Syndrome, etc. It's in it's second series already and is very well received!

My friend and I doing the hard yards!

I was honoured to be on the program as a voice for our Australian community!

So far, all the feedback I've received on My input has been really positive. :)

An interesting side effect has been I've been recognized by many people outside of the kink community, generating some interesting conversations with those unfamiliar with My work or profile!  

Click on this image to go to the Iview video

In the last 2 years and for the first time ever, I've finally been willing to speak to popular media about BDSM and being a sex worker and Dominatrix. 

17 years ago, I'd NEVER have talked to any media outlets! Our work as Mistresses was totally hush-hush and it was looked down upon to break our professional silence...

Now, with the increasing visibility of S&M and alternative sexuality in popular media, films, on TV I believe there's never been a better time to offer Myself as a credible source for information about Professional Domination, sex work and BDSM.

"50 Shades of Grey" effect? BRING IT ON!!!

Best, now on TV!



BACK IN SYDNEY, back at sessions!

I walked into the Feitsh Fair at the German Feitsh Ball and saw pics of Me at the Massad magazine stand! Thanks Bert!

Hi A/all,

I'm wheels down/heels down in Sydney town again and back at sessions in Australia!

Did you miss Me? ;) I officially had a BLAST of a time. Offish.

A taste of the Tawse for slave g in the Dungeons of Mistress Scarlett!

I loved Glasgow because it felt homely, welcoming and because I had so many great sessions...

I was flown up to Scotland after all, by My slave g. Here's a shot of Me beating g, in the boots he gifted Me!

Many thanks to Mistress Scarlett for taking these shots and for accommodating Me at Her great Dungeons!

Ballbusting in 12" heels for a lucky Glasgow slave in the Dungeons of Mistress Scarlett!

I loved Berlin because I went to the German Fetish Ball for the first time, modelled for Skin Two for the big night itself and got to session at the AMAZING Studio Avalon!

Backstage at the German Fetish Ball modelling for Honour/Skin Two !

Setting foot in Berlin, quite literally...

A vac bed set up at Studio Avalon - paradise!A walk in cube cage at Studio Avalon - I was dying to do a suspension in here!

I loved London because I always seem to work My ass off with sessions, both with My regular long term slaves AND new slaves.

I sessioned at Murder Mile Studios, with many thanks to Mistress Morrigan Hel for being so accommodating!

I loved Ireland... HANG ON!!! I went to Ireland, too?

YES, I got flown to Scotland from Australia AND ALSO Ireland from London, by TWO different slaves. Some have all the luck - and I feel VERY lucky!!

So, now I'm back!

My availabilities in Sydney:

9am to 10pm 6 days per week

No Sunday sessions

Same day appts possible, never guaranteed

24hrs notice for an appt is optimal

World class studios in Leichhardt, 10mins from CBD

Call 0420 879 204 or email themistress@mistresstokyo.com

See you all sooner before I take off again, which actually won't be long! (I'm in Japan in 2wks!!)

Best - and I keep getting better...