Welcome to My Site

I'm a Professional Dominatrix in Sydney with over 18yrs experience in BDSM.

I conduct sessions in My private studio close to the Sydney CBD.

I'm also a BDSM Educator, performer and member of the international leather community.


I'm in the fetish editions of Australian Penthouse, speak on Triple J's "The Hook Up", feature on ABC TV on "You Can't Ask That". I'm the Australian Adult Industry Award Winner "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" in 2017.


Please note PHONE is My preferred form of contact, both for expediency and qualitative interaction.


+61 420 879 204

Email: themistress@


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"Growing Up Gracefully" Ep. now on Iview

Hi again A/all!

Just letting you know the episode of ABC TV's "Growing Up Gracefully" in which I feature is now online on Iview.

View the episode here for the next 3 wks only!

Best, in glorious technicolour!




On ABC TV's "Growing Up Gracefully" tonight!

Hi E/everyone!

I must say, at this point in My relatively short career, I'm having some really wonderful opportunities come My way... ;)

I was approached again by ABC TV to be on another of their programs - this time on "Growing Up Gracefully"!

It's the story of Sisters Hannah & Eliza Reilly; two misguided twentysomethings who, after rediscovering the 1950s teen-advice book 'Growing Up Gracefully', ask themselves, as young women in 2017, how do we learn to grow up?

I was asked to host Eliza Reily as she and her partner visited My dungeon to get advice on how to incorporate watersports and spanking into their growing kinky sex life!

Me in action - check Eliza's expression!

We had an excellent dialogue to break the ice, then got into some action!

For two young people relatively new to the BDSM scene, we spent a lot of time talking about what consensual kink play actually looks like, how to play safe and how to construct a scene.

I really enjoy talking about what I do to demystify kink for those outside the scene and enable access into My life as a Pro Domme and sex worker.

I hope the viewers at home get a great message!

The play was tame - for TV of course - compared to what I normally do, but it was still new and a *total* edge for both players - as you can see on Eliza's face in the above screen shot! (Blazing new trails is what I'm all about, after all!)

The episode screens tonight at 930pm on the ABC.

Tune in tonight, or in the near future on Iview when the episode is online - I'll let you know when!



Me on the ads for the program! YES!


Touring Melb Sept 19-25

Hi A/all,

I'm touring Melbourne Victoria for the first time in 2yrs!

I'll be in town for this year's Oz Kink Fest to do a show with Paloma Negra for the big Friday night party and hold all My most popular BDSM workshops.

This time though, I'll be taking on sessions, too!

Last year I was in Amsterdam for Europerve around this period, so in 2017 I'm looking forward to reaquainting with My favourite Melbourne slaves!


My availability in Melbourne:

From Tues 19th to Mon 25th

Sessions at Collingwood Confidential

Call Me on 0420 879 204 or

Email Me on themistress@mistresstokyo.com

Same day bookings possible - but highly unlikely!

At this stage I still have time on Tuesday afternoon, Wednesday and Thursday - with restricted time only on Friday day.  

I've already taken bookings, so if you wish to meet, be in touch ASAP to avoid disappointment.

Best, all around Australia!



My Serious Kit Human Milking Machine! 1st in OZ!

The SPT from My infamous Serious Kit Human Milker

Hi A/all!

So everyone basically knows I'm a total gearhead and have a HUGE collection of kinky accoutrements. If there is something unique, I get it.

I want not only a world class studio, but one packed with all the stuff I'd ever need, as in, "EVER-EVER".

Years ago, Stuart at Serious Kit contacted Me and told Me I should own one of his unique human milking machines.

I looked at the amazing gear & sexy price tag (plus P&H, importation tax - thanks Australia) and put it on the bucket list.

Time passed and I decided I needed to grab one of these things. Last October, I personally visited Stuart in Moreton on Marsh to pick up My milker. 

I threatened to bring this new and intense level of play to My scenes AND YOU ALL KNOW I'M A WOMAN OF MY WORD.


I am now the ONLY Pro Domme in Australia to have a Serous Kit Milking Machine!

The Nipple Suckers on My infamous Serious Kit Human Milker

Okay great, it's all fancy and costs a packet but WHAT THE HECK IS IT?

Popular amongst London's finest Dommes, this machine is currently becoming prevalent thru Europe and the USA.

And Australia. Did I mention lil olde Oz?

It's known as a Human Milker and is an edging machine that sucks on your body with 2 different vacuums. (Think like the Venus 2000 - BUT BETTER.)

It's different to the Venus as it's so strong it SUCKS ON and STAYS ON.

 It has TWO different types of suction, wet and dry, as well as the two vacuum pressures.

In addition to all this goodness, it's also ELECTRIFIED. (a win for all!)

(Basically, it sh*ts on the Venus 2000, about 2000 times)

The SPT in play

It's also a sexy-as, beautifully engineered, finely machined piece of seminal fetish art.

It's fashioned out of medical grade stainless steel, chrome, custom made silicone tubing, latex, gas tight fittings and acrylic. It's fkn gorgeous and worth every Australian peso.

I also like to be THE FIRST to introduce amazing gear like this to Australia. Yep, it's officially a KINK with Me!

The Nipple Suckers in play

Combine this with total enclosure latex, invasive play, bondage, breath play, etc etc etc and you have A VERY SEXY SCENE INDEED. 

Enjoy the pictures to show this fabulous machine in action. I actually have shot video and put if on Vimeo, but it got shot down in flames, even without genitals being shown. :(

This rubber slave LOVED the SPT and got right into an intense space!

Want to check out Serious Kit? Click on the banner link below to go to their home site...


This machine is available in a minimum 90min session. (It takes time to set up and to set in rhythm, hence 1hr is too short)

My tributes for a 90min session of this style is 450, with 2hrs at 650, and 3hrs at 850.

Please inqure to Me directly for sessions longer than 3hrs.

Best, ever...



I've won an Australian Adult Industry Award!

Hi A/all!

I woke up to a very lovely surprise last week when I looked at My Twitter account...

I've been awarded "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" at the Australian Adult Industry Awards in 2017!

It was a surprise to be nominated in the fist instance, forget actually win something! (shucks!) 

Check the website for the AAIA here!

I'd like to thank all those who nominated Me, and also to those who voted for Me!

My congratulations go to all the other winners in the many other categories. Well done to be top of your game in this country!

My greatest encouragement to those nominated alongside Me in the "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" category. May the best person win next year, with My best of luck!

Regardless of any accolades, I maintain to keep trying to be a positive force in My industry, to be a relevant speaker for My community, to include and celebrate all peoples, and to aim to give back to those with whom I connect, whether in work or play.