Welcome to My Site

I'm a Professional Dominatrix in Sydney with over 18yrs experience in BDSM.

I conduct sessions in My private studio close to the Sydney CBD.

I'm also a BDSM Educator, performer and member of the international leather community.


I'm in the fetish editions of Australian Penthouse, speak on Triple J's "The Hook Up", feature on ABC TV on "You Can't Ask That". I'm the Australian Adult Industry Award Winner "Best for Fantasy and Fetish" in 2017.


Please note PHONE is My preferred form of contact, both for expediency and qualitative interaction.


+61 420 879 204

Email: themistress@


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Shot by Chrissie Hall, "100 Pictures, 100 Stories"

Hi A/all!

A portraits of Me has been included in a 100 portrait curation by Australian photographer, Chrissie Hall!

"On Wednesday 18 October 2017, 107 Projects in Redfern will come alive with the stories of 100 people told through photography and written word. 100 Pictures, 100 Stories is the culmination of a twelve-month project by artists Chrissie Hall and Deb Morgan who photographed and interviewed 100 subjects over the course of the year, ranging from scientists, porn-stars, cake makers, chicken breeders, taxidermists, cos-players, health professionals, performers, artists, actors and craft beer connoisseurs.

The series entailed a one-on-one session where each person was asked to bring along objects they felt represented who they are. Each subject was captured in Hall’s signature photographic style, and then sat down for a cup of tea with Morgan to discuss their creative practice, philosophies and personal stories."

A literal look thru the camera's lens on our shoot...

Recognize this blue dress and My signature red rope? Of course you do!

Chrissie and I shot last year and it's wonderful to finally see this amazing exhibition launched!

Want to see the exhibition?

Here are the details - I'll be there in person tomorrow night, of course!

Opening event: Wednesday 18 October
Closes: Sunday 22 October
Venue: 107 Projects, 107 Redfern St, Redfern

If you wish to attend, you'll need to register online at Eventbrite.

Check the registration link here...

Best, shot in the style to which I'm accustomed!


Want to see the real thing? Come get up close and personal at the launch!


Photos from Oz Kink Fest Show

Hi A/all!

Yes!! Another AMAZING show was up in lights at Oz Kink Fest in Melbourne on Sept 22 at the big Friday night club party Hellfire Resurrection!

My wonderful co performer Paloma Negra from Paloma Negra Theatre and I took our audience on a journey with shades of contemporary dance, butoh, My customary heavily hacked shibari, latex and shoe fetish!

No 50 Shades of Grey here! lol

I love crafting shows like you've never seen before.

I find SO MUCH Shibari rope bondage show boring, but not Mine.

You NEVER know what you'll see when I take the stage!

We used normal 6mm jute rope... But then when Paloma had the watershed idea of suspension using HEAVY THICK hemp, we just went with it!

I really had a revelation during our show about our prowess together.

Paloma is really a "co-performer" and creative co-conspirator, not a "rope bunny" or a "bottom".

One other thing she is, is THE BOMB.

Thanks Paloma - and thanks SO MUCH to Oz Kink Fest for having us back another year!

Best, up in lights again!



Sessions in Melb til Fri 22, Oz Kink Fest til Mon 25

Hi A/all!

I'm down in Melbourne and looking forward to a HUGE weekend of Oz Kink Fest and all that that entails! 

But, before all this can happen - I'm looking forward to My sessions with My favourite slaves in Melbourne!

I've only precious time left in My schedule but I still can take on a couple of appointments. 

If you wish to meet for a session, call Me on 0420 879 204 to discuss your desires.

I'm available via email, but prefer to talk in real time, most particularly if the session is same day or next day.

My availabilities in Melbourne:

Weds to 5pm

Thurs 10am to 10pm

Fri 10am to 5pm

I'm conducting sessions at the Collingwood Confidential in Collingwood.

I can be available on 3hrs notice; next day notice is preferred, but do try Me to see if our schedules align.

Please text Me instead of leaving a voicemail as I don't check them - if you miss Me, I'll return your text at My earliest convenience!

On to Australia's premier 10 day kink event, now in it's 10th year - Oz Kink Fest!

Tonight, I'm on a Q&A panel of fetish and kink sex workers addressing working in BDSM.

The event is called "Frisky Business" and will be held at a private venue next to Lucrezia and De Sade in Brunswick St.

I'm hugely honoured to be asked to be on this panel as I've not seen an event like this before in Australia!

The tickets are already sold out so I'm already sure it'll be a great night! I'm looking forward to learning what is on the mind of the wider non-professional community to ask seasoned pros like Me!

I've got a big new show I'm presenting with My fabulous co-performer Paloma Negra on Friday night at the big Oz Kink party - Hellfire Resurrection!

An image from our last show at Oz Kink Fest in 2015

I'll be doing shibari like you've not seen it before! Paloma and I have crafted a totally new show harnessing our rope skills, her background in dance and butoh and our own particular kinky sexy fetish "tendencies"! Watch out for those heels!!! :)

I must say, it's really wonderful to be honing My performance relationship with someone as experienced and skilled as Paloma Negra. We've been performing together for over 4 years and I'm so blessed to have this creative relationship in My life!

Then on Sat and Sun, I'm offering 5 workshops to the Oz Kink Fest community:

  • - Sounds and Catheters on Cis Men
  • - CBT on Cis men
  • - Takedown Bondage
  • - Heavy Sensory Deprivation
  • - Mending Latex Clothing 101

I love presenting these workshops as I get to talk on My favourite topics! All the core material is My own and is distilled from 17 years of professional domination at an elite level, sessioned around the globe.

In addition this this, I believe it's imperative we share our skills so that we can all grow together stronger in our fabulous lifestyle.

See you in Melbourne, slaves and lifestyle kinksters alike!




3 days off over My Birthday, Sept availabilities

Hi A/all,

I'm taking a well earned rest for a couple of days over My birthday weekend before My tour of Melbourne and My commitments at Oz Kink Fest!

I'm only in Sydney for specific dates for the rest of the month, so here they are...

Catch Me if you can!! ;)

My availability for rest of Sept:

In Sydney from now until Thurs 14

Available NEXT Mon 18 ONLY

In Melbourne for sessions from Tues 19-Fri 22

Presenting workshops and a show at Oz Kink Fest 23-24

In Sydney for sessions again Tues 26

Over My short holiday period, I'll not be available on My phone after Weds night this week.

I'll take calls and check My email from Sun 17.

Re My Melbourne tour, I'll be checking My inbox and available on My phone as per usual.

I still have times available for sessions in Melbourne - but do call instead of emailing Me, most particularly if you wish to book short notice, ie. a next day meet.

(I have a jam packed schedule already and won't have time to sit down to check My email with My normal vigilance!)

Do expect delays on comms over the Oz Kink Fest weekend, it's always such a busy time for Me.

I'll post again about My Melbourne tour and Oz Kink Fest next week! See you all after My bit of birthday time off! :)




In-depth Australian Penthouse interview

Hi again A/all!

My ongoing relationship of mutual love continues with Australian Penthouse!

This time, I'm interviewed in depth talking about the ins and outs of My work in July for their most recent edition, online and in print!

If you want to read the interview online, go here and check it out...

It's accompanied by images by Sydney's amazing erotic photographer Roberto Duran.

I'm clad in full leathers playing with a male slave - the same set that appeared in print firstly in the most recent "Fetish" edition of Penthouse, earlier in the year...

Remember these shots?

I have a few magazines here for My lucky slaves if you want your own copy!

If you can't get in to see Me, grab an in-store copy ASAP as they might dry up by the end of next week!